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about a few years back i lied to my bfnd…i lied about me gettin raped..getting gang raped by some men whom i didnt knw..den i claimed that they were mentally harassing me..god knws what had gotten into my head but i did all this to get that attention from him which i always craved for..i did the biggest mistake of my life my doin this..so i thot of confession here as im afraid he might leave me if i tell him the truth..
liar bitch on October 4th 2008 in Guilt
Sherika (Jamaica) 17+ said on 09 Oct 2008 at 5:24 am # Quote
Please tell him the truth!! If he leaves u that simply shows it wasn’t ment to be!!
If he loves u he will forgive u!! Also if u love him u wudnt lie!! So jus politely let him know wat u ave done and the reason y u did it. Everything will work out just fine!! Dont worry.
Just tell him…
Kelli said on 27 Oct 2008 at 1:35 pm # Quote
Sorry you are going through this right now. I have to agree with the other poster. You really need to have a heart to heart chat with him. Let him know that you lied so that you could get his attention. Apologize and let him know it will never happen again. Make sure it doesn’t.
He will 1) probably get upset and not trust you, 2)never speak to again or 3) forgive you.
In order for you to live with yourself and your conscience then you need to come clean.
julia said on 11 Nov 2008 at 11:18 am # Quote
I did the same thing almost. A couple of years back I told my boyfriend that I was sexually harrassed by these guys I had met in Costa Rica. I have no clue what made me do it, all I know is i craved the sympathy and attention. I felt pathetic afterward. A couple months ago we were talking, and I told him that it was a lie. Of course he was upset that I had lied to him, and I lost some of his trust. But in the end, he was more relieved than upset that I had lied about it.. He hated that there was supposively less of me for him because I had been raped. He is so happy to know that isn’t true…
Tell him.