My pastor
Posted by Prettygirl in Guilt on Apr 14th, 2010 | 17 commentsWell I been secretly havn personal phone conversations and text messages with my pastor for almost 3 yrs. We have private talks in his office. By the way he’s married and he’s always telling me how good I look and is always checking out my body, telling me how I attractive I am. When we hug, it’s close and for longer than usual. I only accepted his friendship because he has counsel with me after I got out a bad relationship with my ex. And now that I have a new boyfriend, he really wants me to get rid of him. I think my pastor is in love with me because he tells me how much he love me all the time. I feel like I’m wrong for accepting his friendship because it’s been kept a secret and nobody knows we secretly talk and have private meetings in his office. And one time he told me he would love to take me out and wanna take me out to the gym. I guess to see my body movements. I def caught him staring at my butt a few times. I need help! I want out!
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If you want “out” then leave. No one is holding you prisoner but yourself. If you really did not like his advances you would have left a log time ago. The fact that you stay, knowing how inappropriate it is, shows you get some delight from it. Its wrong and you wouldn’t like it if someone was doing that with your husband.
so stop. what’s the issue? just stop. you can see he’s a scumbag, no better than the catholic priests who rape boys. cut it out.
hey yu sound to be having fun at this
anyway/ is yr life/ secret desires have
a way of getting fullfilled, yrs is one of them/ go ahead and dont fret about it
“I think my pastor is in love with me becase he tells me how much he love me all the time.”
Brilliant.
Couldn’t have said it better myself!
Thank u all for your advice and comments! I really wanted to hear feedback, cause I know I’m not the only one that think it wrong forca married pastor to act the way he do towards me. All my life guys have tried to take advantage of me cause I look innocent and I’m pretty and stay to myself. I hate being used to flirt with forctheir filthy pleasures. But thanx y’all.
Oh, dear, you have mistaken being in love for being in lust. Someone is going to get hurt in this situation. You better get out while the gettins good! And hope his wife does not find out. I assume you attend his church? Do what God says and don’t commit this sin.
Yes i understand Angel. I’m not tryna be his girlfriend. Jus thought it was ok to be friends, but now i see it was a bad idea,cause he likes me alot and he’s married. So yes God has been telln me to step back. and I am. And of course he lusting after me. So i def gotta get away. And of course im a member of his church.
he is in a position of power and he’s taking advantage of you. i doubt you’re the only one he’s doing this to. he needs to be stopped and/or reported especially if you are under age. be brave and don’t let him do this to you and other girls in the church. this guy is a loser and a creep. pastors are NOT supposed to do this plus he’s married’ he will try and make you look like the bad guy but be strong! and if you can back it up with facts, do that
p.s. keep the text messages for evidence!
i think your are full of sh$#@ and full of yourself and live in that fantasy world where everybody loves you and wants you.
I know what you going thru i think that it all started over 20 years ago. Simply as yours helping me with a bad situation then he started calling me, taking me to lunch, and being very available whenever I needed him. I fell in love with him and he fell in love with me. He got divorced asked me to marry him but I was afraid that people would condemn him once it became public knowledge so I denied the love and movd away and had no more contact with him for about seven years then three years ago he returned to this state and we ran in to eachother at a church convention and he had remarried. we exchanged phone numbrs and it startd all over again. This time I am married i am still so in love with this mn that it pains my entire being for us not to be together. I feel that we both wasting precious time trying to love two
my friend,tell your pastor to deeply repent in what he was doing and repent yourself.also break this relationship.it’s not a question of IF it’s a question of WHEN it will happen between the 2 of you.Repent,find some mature God-fearing Christian in your church and confess everything to them,before it’s too late.May Lord help you.
He is a fool and not a pastor in my eyes!!!
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The church in Garden Grove on 9th!hahah! Church is Church you should never have those type of conversations with your married pastor and having a boyfriend! That’s sad and not fair to your boyfriend either!! If you really want out! You will get out! I know your boyfriend is! Thats sick! Thats not a real Pastor and cult like!!!
What a fool! The 2 of you!!!!
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if this is really happening then you need to go to another church. otherwise you are asking for this behavior.
Stop. RUN! Flee.