My 1 year old daughter….

does not belong to my husband of 7 years. He has no idea.

Anonymous on November 12th 2008 in Guilt

12 Responses to “My 1 year old daughter….”

  1. anonymous said on 12 Nov 2008 at 7:42 pm # Quote

    thats horrible..how can u do that? forget how you’re feeling, what about your husband? and worst of all, you just had to go and bring an innocent child into this. thats just sad how some people can be so selfish

  2. Tony said on 13 Nov 2008 at 3:49 am # Quote

    Well it could be worst. If youre a white couple and the baby turns out black or vice versa.

    Hell you can’t say for sure unless you have a DNA test done. We have to assume you were having sex with both men and unless your husband is totally serile……

    In any event what good does it do to feel guilty about it? Families consist of more than biological expression. If there is love and commitment then let it go.

    But remember you OWE him one and he ever fails in the fidelity dept he has a get out of jail free card and YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE AND FORGET!!!!!!!!

    As Jerry Springer would say take care of yourself and each other!!!!

  3. Anonymous said on 14 Nov 2008 at 5:24 am # Quote

    Oh wow…………… that sucks for all parties..including you

    I will send prayers your way..

  4. Pat said on 18 Nov 2008 at 10:16 am # Quote

    Are you positively certain?

  5. santjordi said on 13 Dec 2008 at 4:34 am # Quote

    I’m sorry to say this, but you are a bitch

  6. Anon said on 13 Dec 2008 at 2:40 pm # Quote

    That sucks. I’m sorry for the situation you’re in.

  7. Jen said on 14 Dec 2008 at 6:55 am # Quote

    This might sound horrible, but I really don’t think you should tell him. If he thinks the child is his and you guys are happy as a family, keep it that way. You don’t want him to treat your girl differently because you messed up.

  8. H. said on 14 Dec 2008 at 1:17 pm # Quote

    Wow, that really sucks, but I can see where you’re coming from, so I don’t think you’re a bitch for withholding this information. After all, you wouldn’t want your husband to treat her (and you) differently should he finds out. Or worse, he may have a bad reaction to this little piece of news (after having been lied to for 7 years)

    I have to say though, the truth will come out someday, and I think right now, while you can still control the situation, you should tell your husband the truth, before he finds out on his own or from someone else.

  9. Dave said on 17 Dec 2008 at 3:11 pm # Quote

    Because of the complicated health issues that can arise, if you truley love the baby (<—not manipulaation a statement of fact) then you MUST tell your husband. Also you should have used a rubber, my goodness are you a bimbo?

  10. Neleh said on 20 Dec 2008 at 11:47 am # Quote

    wow, first of all, ask God to forgive you, then ask Him to give you the strength to forgive yourself. This could take years. For me, I would keep my secret until if & when the time comes where the need to share arises. Such as medical issues. Until then, love her & love your husband and hope for the best. take care.

  11. Anonymous Slut said on 03 Jan 2009 at 10:15 am # Quote

    If there’s love and commitment, then your husband is the real father. My husband and I have a happy open marriage and my extramarital trysts have produced us with two daughters.Thier father has both watched and listened in on thier conceptions.

  12. Matt said on 05 Jan 2009 at 3:31 pm # Quote

    Anonymous Slut said on 03 Jan 2009 at 10:15 am # Quote

    I truly an jealous of open marriages … your so lucky to find 2 guys … wish i could find 2 women.

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