Comments on: lying to my love http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/lying-to-my-love Confess your deepest, darkest secret Thu, 08 Jan 2009 18:03:25 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Tony http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/lying-to-my-love/comment-page-1#comment-2689 Tony Thu, 13 Nov 2008 04:43:49 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1183#comment-2689 How can you love someone you have never met???? How can you love someone you have never met????

]]> By: anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/lying-to-my-love/comment-page-1#comment-2290 anonymous Sun, 14 Sep 2008 21:32:31 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1183#comment-2290 You have to tell her the truth! I come from a very similar experience, only I was the one lied to. I am a girl, and the person I fell in love with is also a girl. The problem was that she lied to me. She lied to me about everything. She broke the trust we had, and I felt like I didn't know her. I was damn angry, and so hurt, but we were able to reestablish a relationship. What you are doing is cruel. STOP now. Stop before it goes any further. Perhaps there is a way to salvage your relationship, as I was able to salvage mine, but the longer you continue to lie, the more damage you are going to cause. Be brave and tell her the truth. If you really love her, then you must. If not, you are a selfish cow and you don't deserve even her friendship. I'm sorry your Mom passed away, but that doesn't change the fact that you are causing tremendous damage to another human being. Think about her for a second... can you? Or are you too selfish to see beyond your own fears? You have to tell her the truth! I come from a very similar experience, only I was the one lied to.

I am a girl, and the person I fell in love with is also a girl.

The problem was that she lied to me. She lied to me about everything. She broke the trust we had, and I felt like I didn’t know her.

I was damn angry, and so hurt, but we were able to reestablish a relationship.

What you are doing is cruel. STOP now. Stop before it goes any further. Perhaps there is a way to salvage your relationship, as I was able to salvage mine, but the longer you continue to lie, the more damage you are going to cause.

Be brave and tell her the truth. If you really love her, then you must. If not, you are a selfish cow and you don’t deserve even her friendship.

I’m sorry your Mom passed away, but that doesn’t change the fact that you are causing tremendous damage to another human being. Think about her for a second… can you? Or are you too selfish to see beyond your own fears?

]]> By: anon http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/lying-to-my-love/comment-page-1#comment-2160 anon Thu, 28 Aug 2008 05:00:37 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1183#comment-2160 you are most definetly not a horrible person. if she truly is in love with you (which i would say she is by the ammount of time you have been together) then she won't be bothered by the fact that you are really a girl. love knows no bounds, and is a beautiful thing that most humans would kill to experience. i am incredibly happy for you that you've found love. theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. <3 you are most definetly not a horrible person.
if she truly is in love with you (which i would say she is by the ammount of time you have been together) then she won’t be bothered by the fact that you are really a girl.
love knows no bounds, and is a beautiful thing that most humans would kill to experience.
i am incredibly happy for you that you’ve found love. theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. <3

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