its my fault
Posted by lise in Guilt on Sep 22nd, 2010 | 2 commentsmy bestfriends dead, and its my fault. i knew she had a few beers and i still let her drive. im sorry, i will never forgive myself..
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I’m gonna say it very direct and simple. Its not your fault and you can not blame yourself for the action that your friend took. The life itself, you can regret many things, wish you can go back and change it, but time doesn’t stop and rewind. If you wrap your self in past you will not pay attention to present and you will mess up your future. Forgive yourself and live your life for both u and ur self. Ur friend would want you to be happy also.
Find a therapist or a support group asap. Your friend made a choice, it’s not your fault. I understand that this is contrary to what alot of people think but it is nonetheless true. This is especially true if your friend had a drinking problem, it’s NOT your fault. I hope peace finds you