I’m sorry
Posted by anonymous in Guilt on Jan 26th, 2009 | 13 commentsI’m sure that you like me, and you’re the perfect guy for me; smart, funny, musical, sensitive, easy to talk to… everything that I could want.
The only reason I’m struggling to make a move: I think that you’re ugly. And I feel so shallow for it.
I’m so sorry.
xxxxx
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the same thing happened for me and sometimes i hate the idea that i might b a shallow person.but at the end of da day i tell myself physical attraction is very important.
that is the worst reason for not wanting to get in volve with someone if everything else seems so perfect. Is he really that ugly? I say you give him a chance n c what happens. Some times the ugly ones are the nicest ones out there. poor guy.
It’s sad that you would not give a person a chance just because of the way he looks. You should take a chance, you might look back and regret is someday.
i have seen alot of VERY attractive women with average looking guys. unless you think you can get somebody else then stick with him. “beauty is only skin deep”
Well then you should let him know that your not interested in him from a dating or sexual aspect, no reason to leave him hanging
I myself do not believe in love at first sight. I believe that once you get to know someone on the inside that suddenly you fall in love with what’s on the outside. If you love everything about this person internally then give it time and then you may just fall in love with him for what he has on the outside. Give him a chance. You never know, he may just be the best lover you ever had…..
Maybe you should try looking past the looks, but there is nothing wrong with wanting to be physically attracted to the person you want to be with. As long as its not the only thing thats important to you. But as much as people will tell you otherwise, looks are very important in choosing someone to be with. Just make sure you dont worry if OTHER people find him attractive, as long as you do.
I was like you once…but so glad I gave that ugly guy a chance. Now I’ve never loved anyone more and we are getting married soon. I am glad I stepped out of my shallow box, otherwise I would’ve never known true happiness…
i know what you mean! i feel so guilty for it but i just can’t help myself.
hopefully he’ll meet someone one day who is better than me
Don’t feel guilty- i’m actually in exactly the same boat. I DID give it a chance, but there was no attraction, no SPARK for me and kissing him felt WRONG.
So I told him. He was hurt, but it’ll be worse if you leave him hanging.
Good luck!
that is not shallow. u have to be honest about whether or not u r really physically attracted to a person. shallow is being a materialistic money hungry golddigger. looks r important so dont bs urself into believing u r attracted to someone when ur really not.
oh that’s so nice of you. I bet you in a few years he’s gonna look like a stud and you’re gonna regret it. So go ahead, go date those beautiful pretty boys that treat you like crap.
i know how youre ****ing feel, this is the same as my situation, i love him but its the social thing, hes ugly, i could get any guy, i have heaps of guyfriend, im the only girl he talks to. i love him heaps, im attracted to him, but definetly not the looks. So i understand. i feel ****ed