Im scared
Posted by Emily Rose in Guilt on Sep 8th, 2010 | 7 commentsIm scared to tell my mom I love her. She was diagnosed to die in a year. Shes been suffering from MS for 6 years now. Her spinal cord was severed. And no matter what, shes always been there for me. When I need her, she doesnt care about her own pain, she puts it aside and comes to help me. I treat her horribly, and I cant change no matter how hard I try. I love my mother.
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What your feeling is a normal part of grieving, I went through it when my own mother was sick.
But I do recommend professional help IMMEDIATELY!! Maybe if hospice is involved with your mom’s care, they can help. But one-on-one therapy is probably best. I believe you’ll have deep regrets if you don’t deal with this now… If you can’t do it for you, do it for your mom… Gods’ Blessing to you both
Tell her or regret it for the rest of your life. It’s up to you. It’s not like we care…
you are only going to have so much time to tell her that – tell her and make sure she knows it
I think it will at least help you feel better if you can admit to a professional or your mother that you’re angry
TELL HER YOU LOVE HER. she clearly loves you. Obviously you are in hard circumstances witht the illness but you are lucky to have a loving mother.
Can I ask… WHY are you scared to tell her you love her?
Is it too painful?
I’m sure she would love to hear it, painful or not.
This is a hard thing for any person to deal with. I’m sorry to hear.
You have to tell her.
I so regret not telling my mom the last moments of her life. She passed away within 20 minutes if getting sick. And we had been arguing earlier that day.
I still think that I may have partially caused her aneurism.
Don’t leave it open ended. It will haunt you as it does me. I miss her so much and regret not telling her.