RSSI masterbate and watch porn
I am a 20 year old woman. I have never had sexual intercourse because I want to want till I find that one special guy. I started masturbating in my middle teens and now that I am older and know it is wrong, I want to stop. But I get tempted esp. around my time of the month. I also found a site online where I can watch porn for free but I have stopped because it is kind of gross. I don’t like watching women give man blowjobs and having orgies. That is all free porn is it seems. I am a Christian and I know what I am doing is wrong, I hope God can forgive me and I hope that will be able to forgive myself.
Cathy on April 13th 2008 in Guilt
STOP FIGHTING IT said on 13 Apr 2008 at 1:38 pm # Quote
hey i masturbate to i like it to me its a normal thing no crime committed to me its a release when im not getting any sex or i use my vibrator no crime there either i like watching girl on girl porn no crime there i dont watch it constantly but i like it now porn which would be male & female is boring for me does me no good i laugh at it so dont make an ant hill into a mountain according to you ur still a virgin so whats the big deal if you like to rub your pussy enjoy it that just means you enjoy exploring ways to satisfy yourself big whoop rub ur clit all you want enjoy i do
Anonymous said on 13 Apr 2008 at 5:16 pm # Quote
Go take a tour on your body; see what you like and dislike.
zaif said on 15 Apr 2008 at 1:57 am # Quote
in short i dont want to tell u anything becoz i know what u do is wrong and u also know what u do is wrong. so be happy try to leave these things try to to make some hobbies that will be the real frnd and it would help u ……………………………………..
Anonymous said on 15 Apr 2008 at 3:51 am # Quote
its very important to explore your body otherwise when you meet that special someone how will you be able to tell the person what you like and dislike?
anonymous said on 15 Apr 2008 at 11:51 am # Quote
I’m in the same boat - 20 yrs old. virgin. but I’m embarassed about the porn cuz its like there is a stigma. i feel guilty about it later, but I always do feel better..and the more I watch, the less taboo it seems and i’m not as temped to watch. I figure because I didn’t know what it was exactly was my appeal. but that’s just me. As far as masterbating…I don’t think it’s wrong.
Sarah said on 15 Apr 2008 at 12:58 pm # Quote
it is okay to masterbate and use vibrator if necessary. masterbating release stress and is good for your imagination. try masterbating in the shower that feels really nice.
good luck.
justinian said on 11 May 2008 at 2:02 pm # Quote
There is no reason for guilt, the bible does not condemn masturbation nor is it a sin. Only the most evangelical sects state masturbation is a vice. If it keeps you sane, if it stimulates your physical needs than you’ve done nothing wrong. God is a being of forgiveness and understanding, as long as what you’re doing isn’t harming anyone, or yourself, than God will only hold you in the highest regard.
Jeff said on 17 May 2008 at 9:05 am # Quote
DOn’t stop, ever. What you are doing is natural and beautiful. It is NOT wrong.People and books who try to tell you otherwise only want to control your mind so they can profit from it in one way or another. I’d love to discuss this with you.
Your Sister in Christ said on 18 May 2008 at 5:58 am # Quote
The Strength To ‘Go And Sin No More’
John 8:11
11… “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.”
Imagine you were there at the temple when the woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus by the scribes and Pharisees. Would you have expected Jesus to condemn her for her sin? Maybe you would have been surprised to hear Him say, “He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” (John 8:7) After all, she was caught in the very act of adultery.
Jesus, the only one in the crowd who truly had the power to condemn her would not. If you had eavesdropped on their conversation after the crowd had left, you would have heard Him ask her, “Woman… Has no one condemned you?” (John 8:10)
He spoke such words of grace to her because He loved her. Also, by asking her the question, He was giving her a chance to speak words of no condemnation to herself — “No one [condemns me], Lord.” (John 8:11)
Jesus not only spoke words of grace to her, He also gave her the gift of no condemnation — “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.”
Could He do that? She did commit a serious sin. Had God gone soft on sin and compromised His holy standards? Of course not! Jesus could say that to her because He knew that He would be punished for her sins on the cross. He was therefore able to give her the gift of no condemnation.
Today, you have the gift of no condemnation because the Son of God was condemned for all your sins. (Romans 8:1) God cannot condemn you when you sin because He is faithful and just to what His Son has done.
But we still find people saying, “Go and sin no more first, and then I won’t condemn you.” But God says, “I don’t condemn you. Go and sin no more.” God gives you the gift of no condemnation, so that you will have the strength to go and sin no more!
SshToc said on 19 May 2008 at 1:40 pm # Quote
It’s never a sin to do so.Masturbate is never meant for guys only.All those opinion towards girls shouldn’t do that or do those is just craps.It’s ur private time and private life.Just enjoy urself whenever u feel like it.
kora said on 21 May 2008 at 9:53 am # Quote
I believe you should stop..
Although there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about masturbation from a medical point of view, some people have strong religious, cultural or moral objections to the practice. For those who hold these values, choosing not to masturbate is normal, too. There is nothing weird, odd, or unhealthy about this choice.
see how the girl in one of the previous comments said that she now laugh on the man and women sex and she prefer lesbians..its all against nature dear.
I Row Starboard said on 25 May 2008 at 4:46 am # Quote
Hey there. I just want you to know that you are not alone and that there is nothing wrong with masturbating. I have been since i was a teenager too. I am also Christian but i just except that i am a women with needs. You should too and you should indulge your needs.
I watch a pretty good free porn website call 89.com and it is free and you can watch whatever meets your desire in the free movie clips.
I never had sex either and i just turned 21 but i would rather masturbate than waste having sex with a guy i don’t know very well. I almost had sex but i decided not too and it was a good choice cause i didn’t feel comfortable enough with the guy. just wait and keep masturbating about 70 percent of women do. so never feel alone. remember always stick with you morals but don’t give up on your sexual desire.
ka said on 02 Jun 2008 at 8:04 am # Quote
I think you should stop masturbating and watching porn, feeling guilty is a good sign of someone who has a good souls and a good heart, god is showing through your feelings that you are doing is wrong.
I pray to God that you would stay away fom all the evil sins, and remember there is heavan and there is hell so it doesn’t matter how many people do bad things.
What EVER... said on 03 Jun 2008 at 8:30 am # Quote
Don’t listen to ‘ka”. You keep on doing what you are doing and don’t feel an ounce of guilt for it. Shoot, if anything “ka” should try it and stop being so stuffy about life as well as all the others whom are saying to stop. Good hell!
Juli said on 27 Jun 2008 at 3:08 pm # Quote
I’m the same, 20 and still a virgin. However, there is NOTHING wrong with masturbating. It is perfectly healthy and normal. How can you let someone else enjoy and love your body, if you don’t?
Tiger said on 18 Aug 2008 at 4:14 am # Quote
well, if you feel guilty after masturbating then there really is something wrong with it, not you. These people who proclaim it to be natural and healthy are philanderers who wish to go to hell and take you with them. Give up masturbation or just lower the frequency. I mean don’t over do it. Try avoiding porn stuff cause that’s where the stimulus is! You’re religious and I’m proud of you. Thank God people like you still exist. I thought only chicks like Juli are left. LOL
sarah said on 18 Aug 2008 at 10:18 am # Quote
there is nthing bad about masturbation its all normal everyone does it gurls and boys its fine with me im 23 and i masturbate, no big deal im actually wondering why do u make an issue of it!!!! like if its a shame or a sin
P-S said on 18 Aug 2008 at 1:08 pm # Quote
I had a girl friend like u before,she masterbates so much however we had very good sex during that friendship,she never orgasm with me ,as i told u we had very long and good sex,but for orgasm,she must to play with her self and there was no more ways for her,I don’t want to tell u that masterbating is a sin or a crime or …I think majority masterbates often,but if u do something more than it’s normal it will get a problem,just try to do it less than ever or u’ll never could have a real pleasure during a sex with a male! sorry that my english writing is not well.
P-S said on 18 Aug 2008 at 1:28 pm # Quote
in addition when a girl masterbates so much,the outside of her vagina will get more sensitive than inside!it’s the reason that masterbates for females is worst than males,for men the most problem is a soon orgasm during a sex,hope u get what I mean,again sorry for my poor english writing.
Anonymous said on 21 Aug 2008 at 7:48 pm # Quote
I don’t think u r doing anything wrong.
Its normal. everyone does it. those who don’t they are either abnormal are lying bout it. i think its the safest n healthiest way to have the joys of sex without ne fear of pregnancy or STDs.