I masterbate and watch porn

I am a 20 year old woman. I have never had sexual intercourse because I want to want till I find that one special guy. I started masturbating in my middle teens and now that I am older and know it is wrong, I want to stop. But I get tempted esp. around my time of the month. I also found a site online where I can watch porn for free but I have stopped because it is kind of gross. I don’t like watching women give man blowjobs and having orgies. That is all free porn is it seems. I am a Christian and I know what I am doing is wrong, I hope God can forgive me and I hope that will be able to forgive myself.



36 Responses to “ “I masterbate and watch porn”

  1. STOP FIGHTING IT says:

    hey i masturbate to i like it to me its a normal thing no crime committed to me its a release when im not getting any sex or i use my vibrator no crime there either i like watching girl on girl porn no crime there i dont watch it constantly but i like it now porn which would be male & female is boring for me does me no good i laugh at it so dont make an ant hill into a mountain according to you ur still a virgin so whats the big deal if you like to rub your ***** enjoy it that just means you enjoy exploring ways to satisfy yourself big whoop rub ur **** all you want enjoy i do

  2. Anonymous says:

    Go take a tour on your body; see what you like and dislike.

  3. zaif says:

    in short i dont want to tell u anything becoz i know what u do is wrong and u also know what u do is wrong. so be happy try to leave these things try to to make some hobbies that will be the real frnd and it would help u ……………………………………..

  4. Anonymous says:

    its very important to explore your body otherwise when you meet that special someone how will you be able to tell the person what you like and dislike?

    • Anonymous says:

      i agree it is wrong and if it is tempting that is a dead give away that it is a sin think about adam and eve sex is for married people not mascurbating or anything like that so u need to stop just rebuke it in the name of jesus every time u think about it distract yourself!

      good luck

  5. anonymous says:

    I’m in the same boat – 20 yrs old. virgin. but I’m embarassed about the porn cuz its like there is a stigma. i feel guilty about it later, but I always do feel better..and the more I watch, the less taboo it seems and i’m not as temped to watch. I figure because I didn’t know what it was exactly was my appeal. but that’s just me. As far as masterbating…I don’t think it’s wrong.

  6. Sarah says:

    it is okay to masterbate and use vibrator if necessary. masterbating release stress and is good for your imagination. try masterbating in the shower that feels really nice.

    good luck.

  7. justinian says:

    There is no reason for guilt, the bible does not condemn masturbation nor is it a sin. Only the most evangelical sects state masturbation is a vice. If it keeps you sane, if it stimulates your physical needs than you’ve done nothing wrong. God is a being of forgiveness and understanding, as long as what you’re doing isn’t harming anyone, or yourself, than God will only hold you in the highest regard.

  8. Jeff says:

    DOn’t stop, ever. What you are doing is natural and beautiful. It is NOT wrong.People and books who try to tell you otherwise only want to control your mind so they can profit from it in one way or another. I’d love to discuss this with you.

  9. Your Sister in Christ says:

    The Strength To ‘Go And Sin No More’

    John 8:11
    11… “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.”

    Imagine you were there at the temple when the woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus by the scribes and Pharisees. Would you have expected Jesus to condemn her for her sin? Maybe you would have been surprised to hear Him say, “He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” (John 8:7) After all, she was caught in the very act of adultery.

    Jesus, the only one in the crowd who truly had the power to condemn her would not. If you had eavesdropped on their conversation after the crowd had left, you would have heard Him ask her, “Woman… Has no one condemned you?” (John 8:10)

    He spoke such words of grace to her because He loved her. Also, by asking her the question, He was giving her a chance to speak words of no condemnation to herself — “No one [condemns me], Lord.” (John 8:11)

    Jesus not only spoke words of grace to her, He also gave her the gift of no condemnation — “Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.”

    Could He do that? She did commit a serious sin. Had God gone soft on sin and compromised His holy standards? Of course not! Jesus could say that to her because He knew that He would be punished for her sins on the cross. He was therefore able to give her the gift of no condemnation.

    Today, you have the gift of no condemnation because the Son of God was condemned for all your sins. (Romans 8:1) God cannot condemn you when you sin because He is faithful and just to what His Son has done.

    But we still find people saying, “Go and sin no more first, and then I won’t condemn you.” But God says, “I don’t condemn you. Go and sin no more.” God gives you the gift of no condemnation, so that you will have the strength to go and sin no more!

  10. SshToc says:

    It’s never a sin to do so.Masturbate is never meant for guys only.All those opinion towards girls shouldn’t do that or do those is just craps.It’s ur private time and private life.Just enjoy urself whenever u feel like it.

  11. kora says:

    I believe you should stop..
    Although there is nothing abnormal or unhealthy about masturbation from a medical point of view, some people have strong religious, cultural or moral objections to the practice. For those who hold these values, choosing not to masturbate is normal, too. There is nothing weird, odd, or unhealthy about this choice.

    see how the girl in one of the previous comments said that she now laugh on the man and women sex and she prefer lesbians..its all against nature dear.

  12. I Row Starboard says:

    Hey there. I just want you to know that you are not alone and that there is nothing wrong with masturbating. I have been since i was a teenager too. I am also Christian but i just except that i am a women with needs. You should too and you should indulge your needs.

    I watch a pretty good free porn website call 89.com and it is free and you can watch whatever meets your desire in the free movie clips.

    I never had sex either and i just turned 21 but i would rather masturbate than waste having sex with a guy i don’t know very well. I almost had sex but i decided not too and it was a good choice cause i didn’t feel comfortable enough with the guy. just wait and keep masturbating about 70 percent of women do. so never feel alone. remember always stick with you morals but don’t give up on your sexual desire.

  13. ka says:

    I think you should stop masturbating and watching porn, feeling guilty is a good sign of someone who has a good souls and a good heart, god is showing through your feelings that you are doing is wrong.

    I pray to God that you would stay away fom all the evil sins, and remember there is heavan and there is hell so it doesn’t matter how many people do bad things.

  14. What EVER... says:

    Don’t listen to ‘ka”. You keep on doing what you are doing and don’t feel an ounce of guilt for it. Shoot, if anything “ka” should try it and stop being so stuffy about life as well as all the others whom are saying to stop. Good hell!

  15. Juli says:

    I’m the same, 20 and still a virgin. However, there is NOTHING wrong with masturbating. It is perfectly healthy and normal. How can you let someone else enjoy and love your body, if you don’t?

  16. Tiger says:

    well, if you feel guilty after masturbating then there really is something wrong with it, not you. These people who proclaim it to be natural and healthy are philanderers who wish to go to hell and take you with them. Give up masturbation or just lower the frequency. I mean don’t over do it. Try avoiding porn stuff cause that’s where the stimulus is! You’re religious and I’m proud of you. Thank God people like you still exist. I thought only chicks like Juli are left. LOL

  17. sarah says:

    there is nthing bad about masturbation its all normal everyone does it gurls and boys its fine with me im 23 and i masturbate, no big deal im actually wondering why do u make an issue of it!!!! like if its a shame or a sin

  18. P-S says:

    I had a girl friend like u before,she masterbates so much however we had very good sex during that friendship,she never orgasm with me ,as i told u we had very long and good sex,but for orgasm,she must to play with her self and there was no more ways for her,I don’t want to tell u that masterbating is a sin or a crime or …I think majority masterbates often,but if u do something more than it’s normal it will get a problem,just try to do it less than ever or u’ll never could have a real pleasure during a sex with a male! sorry that my english writing is not well.

  19. P-S says:

    in addition when a girl masterbates so much,the outside of her vagina will get more sensitive than inside!it’s the reason that masterbates for females is worst than males,for men the most problem is a soon orgasm during a sex,hope u get what I mean,again sorry for my poor english writing.

  20. Anonymous says:

    I don’t think u r doing anything wrong.
    Its normal. everyone does it. those who don’t they are either abnormal are lying bout it. i think its the safest n healthiest way to have the joys of sex without ne fear of pregnancy or STDs.

  21. Dee says:

    I’m not quite sure but I think there is a verse in the Bible that says you shouldn’t do it.

    The thing with this, I think, is the fact that it leads to impure thoughts. You know, in a religious point of view. The only time you should be thinking about anything sexual is if you think about your spouse.

    I think…

    • Rev. sanders says:

      What verse, there is nothing in your bible that says not to masterbate, the adulturous women was sleeping with a married man ( who receeved no social action) and the only other statement mde anywhere in regard was not to spill your seed. This a man was also sleeping with a married women and pulled out, spilling the seed. Reed your book. Don’t guess, your feeling Guilty because a social/religious stigma on a subject that is biblicly unfounded

  22. Always Ready says:

    Hey, there is nothing wrong in it. This is the way by which you can satisfy yourself as the way you want to play with u. So no need to stop it, enjoy it….

  23. x says:

    Think of this, if it was OK with God to do this…would you feel so guilty about it enough to confess it on here? God is trying to tell you to make things right. Whether that means just masterbate but ditch the porn is between you and Him. Ask for HIS help…not all these other peoples’ help.

  24. Mal says:

    Yeah, ok. Masturbation is fairly natural but online porn is not. I have found that I can spend too much time online and get interested in stuff that I was never interested in before. I do think it can become an addiction and I think it is less healthy than reality. See if you can cut down on the porn and find other outlets like fantasies from real life or maybe even being more sexual in real life. Think about it. Reality or online porn?

  25. B says:

    Perhaps I’m just a bitter old atheist, but I fail to see how religion ties into your sex drive… You do what you do because you like it; what more do you need?

  26. Ana says:

    Chill out people. ALL women like to look at porn and masturbate from time to time, so what. It is not against the lord. You are not committing adultery. You are just admiring attractive people with fit bodies. And yes lesbian porn is much more beautiful than straight porn, guy on girl is gross! Girl on girl is soooooo hot, and I’m straight. All straight women secretly like it, no worries :) I am waiting for my husband too… but until then… HAVE FUN LADIES!!!

    • concerned says:

      All,All,All. Such generalities are reasons for rebuttal. Not all women like to look at porn. Give me a break. How do you know it is not against the Lord? Another generality/opinion.

      By the way if you think lesbian porn is better than straight and waiting for your husband, you will have some “serious” explaning to do when you marry him.

      Think before you type.

      Peace..

  27. Its healthy says:

    It is a healthy habit to masturbate. It releases chemicals in your brain that make you happy. It releives stress as well. I don’t care what the bible says, it is good for you!!
    And God will forgive you, there are way worse things out there than masturbating.

  28. concerned says:

    If you are in doubt stop this habit. Yes it is natural and I beleive God understands but if you are feeling guilty this is a sign to stop.

    The porn industry is, perverted sex and includes bondage, child pornography; explotation of women…etc. It perverts one of God’s most precious gifts for a married man and woman. Porn is an addiction.

    I am reading a lot of comments on this forum that do more harm than good. Its your choice. Make it a good one. Have others pray for you.

    I’ll pray for you

    Blessings.

    Solo Sciptura

  29. Girl_With_A_Pearl says:

    Sorry.. iPhone sucks sometimes!! D:

  30. Anonymous says:

    same here girl….just stay strong and you will feel pure when it comes to having the real deal with a man.

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