RSSI don’t want him
:(( I’m not ready to marry him. Oh,God I don’t have the guts to tell him. Ive always wanted 2 have a big wedding party with a good reception. I wanted 2 wear a nice pouffy dress. Is it so big to ask? I don’t want to start my life like a miserable person in a small cramped apartment which is rented.. and the worst I can’t act like a happy bride anymore.besides he doesn’t respect me. I hate his family. Dear God, I was deceiving myself. I know this marriage wont last long time if we start it like this
Anonymous on April 12th 2008 in Guilt
willow said on 12 Apr 2008 at 4:09 pm # Quote
DO NOT DO IT!!! My big sis went against her wishes in the same way. It was miserable. She was able to get the marriage anulled. But do not do it. You will be so unhappy. If you are worried that everything is already set up and you are expected to go through with it…forget that crap! It’s all about you! It is YOUR life!!
BE TRUE TO YOURSELF said on 13 Apr 2008 at 1:25 pm # Quote
hi i can say i know how you feel and believe me if you know for sure that the marriage will not work cause the relationship is heading south well end it its best for yourself it doesnt make sense putting yourself through unnecessary pain that you couldve of avoided then youll probably be like damn only if i did just say im not ready for this or just say it sraight out hey i cant do this it aiant working for me no more sorry and look at it from your own words you dont like the in laws and if you dont like them now trust me not a damn thing will change IF you get married your feelings will stay the same or get worse and maybe they dont like you either so ask yourself how far you gon reach in a false marriage when in laws dont like you mmmmmm they set out to make you and your marriage A LIVING HELL and of course that man you married wont take ur side cause he cant choose between you and his parents so you done know its a loosing fight choose wisely girl choose for yourself a man who doesnt respect you now wont respect you because he married you it will only open the way more wider for him to disrespect you more
Tiger said on 18 Aug 2008 at 4:18 am # Quote
honey, I had gone through the same phase, not being able to tell her that I don’t want her and had to move back at the last moment, obviously before engagement. But now the guilt has overcame me. I mean I raised hopes and kept my mouth shut until the hopes were high. Just tell him in the most explicit manner. It would be good for you both. Good luck
Mark said on 28 Aug 2008 at 10:36 pm # Quote
Don’t do it. I was engaged at an early age and backed out. Felt terrible for my exfiancee but realized I was not ready to make that commitment.
It takes two things to get married. Really loving the person and maturity to make a commitment. BOTH have to be there.