I don’t know what to do
Posted by BadFriend in Guilt on May 15th, 2010 | 5 commentsYour ex- boyfriend and I have been writing each other notes. He said he doesn’t want you anymore and that he likes me. We liked each other since 4 years ago. I feel regret and guilt because you’re my friend. You’ve been with him over a year.
I’m sorry. I’ll stop now.
I know you’ve done some bads things to me but you wouldn’t even do something this low to me.
I really like him but, I don’t know if its worth taking risk over.
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I slept with my best friends boyfriend because I knew she was going to break up with him soon. And, get this, she was a few weeks pregnant with his child. You will be fine. I would suggest never telling her and not telling any mutual friends. Maybe years down the road you can spill the beans, but not anytime in the immediate future. Later when she’s found someone new it’ll be easier for her to forgive you. That’s if you tell her at all.
I think you should tell her. I know it seems terrible but it would make her feel even worse if she found out. I’d be more concerned about making sure what he’s feeling for you is true. I mean if your friend is breaking up with him that must mean something. I doubt it’s over something little if she is having his baby. o_O I’d hate to have someone so obviously sweet get hurt by a creep!
@Bad Lizzy @ Trixy
I ended up telling her. it turns out she lied about her pregnancy and he broke up with her because she was into a lot of drugs and treated him badly. She isn’t who I thought she was and I’m glad I could see it now. Between Me and him now, hes amazing and I’m glad I did the right thing and confessed to her because it made me realize a lot more.
She was saying she was pregnant by the way to make me feel pity for her.
this is a really nice thing for you to do….to try and stop seeing someone for the sake of happiness of a friend. it’s such a hard thing to do. but sometimes you need to think a bit about what will make you happy. i think you should tell your friend how you really feel about him and tell her that you tried to stay away in respect to her feelings but it is hurting you. if she is a real friend she will accept how you feel about him and she will want you to have your own happiness