I cant Help Myself
Posted by Anonymous in Guilt on Apr 15th, 2008 | 14 commentsi know this isnt huge, but, i am a black girl and i like white guys. its not like i find black guys unattractive, i just find white guys more attractive sometimes. Maybe because where im from, black men are loud and annoying(not saying that they are all like that)I would like to find an nice black guy one day, but for now i find some white guys more attractive. i always deny this. A white guy hugged me and i really liked him, but if it was a guy from my school, i wouldnt have liked it.
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Hey, there’s nothing wrong with inter-racial relationships. It’s fine to like white guys. If you like a white guy, go ahead and hook up. If your friends act surprised, just give them a “so what?” attitude. If you don’t make it a big deal, then they won’t either.
Im a black women married to a white man, I’ve always said I’m like the UN I don’t discriminate. I’ve dated all type of men, a man is a man as long as they’re good.
i dont think the colour of someones skins isent important if you like somebody, like seriously
Hey. my parents are an interracial couple. My father his black, my mother is white. Im more on the white side, and my sibling are more on the black side.
Well. We all know there is nothing wrong with interracial couples. Actually, the opposite has been shown to be true. For instance, my parents had to put up with alot of crap for being an interracial couple in rural Kansas. It wasnt always easy, and the hardship and standing together strengthened their relationship.
Not only that, but biracial children have been shown to be more sensitive to social issues, and express greater concern for social wellbeing of individuals and social systems(more empathetic).
So, while its not always easy being an interracial couple, it can create powerful, long lasting bonds. Plus my family reunions are very colorful.
omg whites are the enemy they treat us like there beta than us when infact there not you need to find a good black man whites need to breed with each other not our race
I’m “black” and I prefer white boys, too. In my mind, when it comes to looks, they’re just more handsome/cute/whatever. And when it comes to personality, it has a lot to do with the fact that I rarely hang out with anyone who isn’t white or an oreo, like me, and so I don’t see black guys as being the type of people that feed my intrest.
In any event, it really doesn’t matter. Like who you like, go out with who you want to go out with. And if people have an issue with it, you can either let it get to you one way or another, or let it slide completely. Your friends shouldn’t care who you like if it doesn’t put you in danger.
The greatest thing perhaps about attraction is that it transcends boundaries, ethnic, political, social or otherwise. If you like white guys than you should pursuit white guys. It’s not racist, it’s not a betrayel, it’s a preference.
Nothing to be concerned about.
Why would you even type something so stupid. There must be some level of guilt somewhere, or would have not bother to write that dumb stuff. Go ahead be apart of the porn industry he going to put you in. You make me sick.
its all right if you like white guys better just be with someone you are comfortable with
SOOOOOO WHAAAAAT !! its not a problem at all ..just focus on the character no matter white or black.
whoever that real talk person is, needs to get a life. dont listen to that crap, their post didnt even make since. that person must really be lonely, wtf does porn have to do with her post anyways?
I’m a mocha colored Hispanic woman, and proud of it. That being said, I’m also an equal opportunity dater. I believe that a person falls in love with a person’s soul, not the shell it is encased in.
It really upsets me when people say you shouldn’t date a person of another race because they think they are better than you or they have suppressed your ancestors. I get it from some ignorant people too.
I always reply that I do not listen to racist talk, and that if racism is going to end, I have to do my part. Not dating somebody SOLELY because they are of another race and the attached misconceptions (regardless of what color you are) is racist.
When is the hatred going to end? Wake up people. Learn to accept others for what they are not what they look like. This goes out to people of all color.
I’m married to a white man too and he treats me like a queen. his color had nothing to do with his being my soulmate
i dont find black men attractive either. this isnt a problem