Guilty
Posted by guilt in Guilt on May 2nd, 2009 | 8 commentsi got married 6months ago,he is what i ever wanted, the problem is i hav a friend i knew him since 3 years, we are very much close to each other mentally and physically, i love him too…i dont want to cheat on my husband, i love him, and he loves me too.. but what i dont understand why i cant leave my friend, the attraction just never fades away, i feel so helpless. im suffering..can anyone tell me?
8 Responses to “ “Guilty”
Leave a Reply
Subscribe
if you love your husband my best advice is get away from your “friend” i’ve been there and now i don’t have my husband or my friend…what’s more important to you?
I have a friend that I’ve known since 7th grade. We ended up working for the same employer for 3 decades. I’ve been married for 20 years and she’s been married twice and divorced twice. We are attracted to each other. I love her and she loves me. I have never been unfaithful to my wife. My friend knows my wife and has visited our home. It would have been so easy to have an affair. We never have.. Best friends…I can tell her anything, we laugh, what could be better? My wife has Multiple Sclerosis and hasn’t been able to walk for quite a few years now, I’m her husband and caregiver. It’s a hardship we both must bear. When my life ends, I’ll know I did the right thing. The flesh is weak but the will is strong.
try doing what I did my husband and I have an understanding and one time per month my boyfriend stays the over night with us
Love is more than a feeling it is a decision. To love for a lifetime is to love when even when the feeling isn’t there. The ‘feeling’ of love comes and goes. The decision to love (and whom to love) is your own. Resolve to love the one you have committed yourself to. It is the beginning of deep love. Lifetime love.
Only fools mistake temptation for opportunity. This is just temptation, its only outcome is regret.
To Rob: Your view of love is the wisest I have come across; I have always tried to convince people that our view is right but no one seems interested in giving it a thought. Cheers.
If you have only been married for 6 months, then you should end it all now before you invest or waste any more time. Do it now, before you have kids!
Yeah, if you’re already wanting to whore it up 6 months into the marriage, get out now and save the man the humiliation. You don’t deserve him.
stay away from this ‘friend’
your husband doesn’t deserve this and i am am not going to sugarcoat it…. you did something horrible.