Feelings for Young girls
Posted by Alex in Guilt on Dec 14th, 2009 | 19 commentsI just found this site today, and it made me want to confess to some feelings I have.
I have intimate feelings for young girls (7-14). I’ve had them for as far back as I can remember and they’ve always made me feel sick. I’ve NEVER touched a young girl and I hope I never will but it disturbs me that I feel this way.
Reading erotic stories and talking to others that feel the same way relieves the pressure, and an occasional encounter with someone relieves the pressure (legal age). I like women a lot so I’m not fixated on my desires, which is probably why I’ve never taken it farther.
I’ve never confessed to this before…..
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Believe it or not this only means that you are normal. Truth is that these girls look and act much older than what they really are.
The fact that you feel repulse is good. Remember looking is allowed touching isn’t.
yeah i know,girls are much more mature, i find them facinating just taking to them,men are much stupid,they talk about shitty stuff is boring,they are cool for hanging out,but i rather listen to a woman say things,they are much much more interesting intellectually. I can touch while looking,one can feel with the eyes.
The Devil touches everything and everyone. Sounds like you’ve got some morals to protect you though. Keep them in check and never let them stray and things will be fine. At least you recognize the battle so fight it!
Good luck.
yeap, morals are good. Im high on that,always been. Blaming the devil is not the solution ,i blame myself. I do think is a matter of looking,take an example myself an artist we have ways to go beyond normal looking,is by associating mind and what you see. you can have tricks,but is really a daily battle,especially for someone who is highly sensitive to his surroundings,be it sound,smell,sight,touch,etc, is what makes a higher talented artist,but good luck that you are not.
Everyone has sexual fantasies and it’s not that uncommon for them to be for young people and it’s a tragedy that society condemns that. You should be allowed to talk freely about it without being looked down on, you shouldn’t have to be ashamed. As long as you don’t hurt anybody there’s nothing wrong with it.
Before i did not,i do like woman my own age,they say a mature woman is better,can show you things you did not know,i do not mean sexually only,but morally,emotionally,etc.YOung people are that,children. But i have a problem,im not experienced in sex,have no idea of it. Obviously i had have time to know it,study it fully,feel confortable taking about it,but when it comes to practice i have zero,because i always had the fantazy of being with one person all my life,but lately that fantasy is turning sour,and im thinking of giving up,and just let my desires go and start experimenting a world i dont know,although i fear i would overdo it,probably daily,since i have never done that. I do have to do it someday,my body is just exploding lately.
If what you really want is one partner, and you have that sort of perseverance, then go ahead and wait. I’d much rather have many partners in my lifetime than miss out on experiences with fascinating people because I was devoted to one person. I guess that’s fidelity’s great flaw. I think sex and love are two different things entirely. And only one of them is tangible enough to say for certain if it’s real. Why wait for something that may or may not happen when you could be enjoying yourself?
Sarah ,sarah oh little sarah…like you said love is one thing, sex is another. YOu can enjoy yourself in life and have and meet fascinating people without any sexual involvement.sex after all is in the mind. I am the kind of person who needs love,love’s intangibility is a great mystery ,it exists, exists in the heart, only if you know how to love others,i dont mean the fisical love,but a brotherly love, it takes a lifetime to understand it ,but it exists,i love people look at them enough and you understand them,even though their minds are a little messed up hehe..even though they think of you this or that,who cares…you are there only to meet and listen,see what they have learned in life,why…i dont know…is the interest i have…Now sex is tangible,im pretty sure,but when i have had psycal contact ,it feels good ,but wears so quick if my mind is not in love…i dont know ,have you ever been in love? i have a few times,but somehow none of them are real, because i do believe one love’s once. We are not animals,and even animals some of them have one partner their whole life. It is my belief,men and woman naturally are that. I dont know i never fell in love, but somehow i never lost faith…it would be real, i have had the feeling many times of looking into someones eyes and falling in love,but since i am a painter,is not love that im looking for hehe, now i understand is just the way i see people, very intensely with my eyes, yeah i stared at them, haha, they feel weird,i dont …but when i told you that i fell in love with this sweet REBEL WOMAN HEHE, i saw her,but she looked at me,and i felt that she was really looking at me;you know people look back at you,even the ones they like you,but you are cool about it…with this woman was as real ,it felt like i want to stare at her eyes forever. that at least is my experience,is no invention,leave that to the movies. i had have a couple of times before her,happen to me, it is like a flash,but somehow it was not the time, the first did not trust enough what she felt (damn italian…slim girl,just the way i like them,but i think it was more of an attraction),she got marry afterwards with some stupid nerd. the second one ,she was a good friend of mine,everything felt right,she was the sweetest woman you would meet,but no fisical atraction,at least in bed you know,she got married to a military guy,both broke my heart,i did had feelings for her,but i was pursuing something else,…why this REBEL GIRL, WELL, both things happen i felt atracted,and i fell for her eyes,i know she is a great girl,but still im not friends with her, i iimagine it be great…
I definetely agree,good advice bubear50,sarah and the old man,but i have some minor points.
Someone who is not normal,like me,feels atraction obviously,probably higher than the average normal male, is tormented by it,hence he founds refuge in high moral laws. He needs to release that, in a way i try to pursue my desires in the past ,but my morals always stand in my way and make me stop,what i would consider going beyond,mainly because of relgion and not wanting to lie to the person …is really hell. Now when i have been in love,since my mind falls in love first, i can enjoy looking at someone without touching her,because i can touch with my eyes so there is no problem, if i were allowed to touch ,i would really feel lots of passion ,but always would respect the other. in the times i have touched women (about 15 i guess) well yeah i have lots of desire,but the morals again,get in the way,and the kisses turn sour, and feeling turns off,not because of attraction but because of not getting that “love feel” i go far as making out,but not any sexual things, at least that is my barrier or where i draw the line(i seem like a woman,but is the way i am),now if my lover would allow me,and i am really in love, i would do everything,but if not i would respect that.I do have feelings for young women,but is nothing really bad,is just enjoying an apreciating beauty,hence im flirtatious, although lately i have sexual thoughts,but they come and go, is good that i go work out and release all that sexual energy,but is getting harder since im in love with someone i a yearn for her.
I think you already realize this but, 7-14 is too young for you to touch or converse with in that way. I think you have mentioned that you have kissed a 15 year old….that is definitely too young as well, even if you have not had sex with them. If you are a grown man, which it seems you are, young girls are too young for you to act upon in that way. Teenagers are not “woman”, they are still children and grown men touching or kissing them is wrong and it is taking advantage of them. They are not mentally ready and it does not matter how they look they are still children and most importantly SOMEBODIES child. Would you want a grown man touching and kissing your little girl? It happened to me when I was 16 years old and the man was 36 years…he was a co-worker when I worked in a retail store…He groped me and tounge kissed me in the back room. I thought I was “mature” then…but I wasn’t. the experience traumatized me and still stays with me till this day and I’m 27 years old now. children need a chance to be children they are NOT mini-adults. You are already know its wrong…maybe it will help to put yourself in the shoes of a parent and if that was your child…or at least do it for that child’s well being….please.
HAHA, i meant 15 women…not 15 years old, what the hell u think i am? a psycho???
Your so full of bull. Are you saying you didn’t know it was wrong when you tongue that 36 year old man. Whatever. Pllease don’t act like your innocent. Like you said you did what you wanted to at the time. We all get wiser the older we get no matter how old we are. At 30 I thought I knew everything till I got 40. So age has nothing to do with it. We all look back and say boy if I new back then what I know now, I would have done it differently. No matter how old you are it does not excuse what you did then or your miraculously innocent because you didn’t know better. Please.
To make a long story short you knew right from wrong early on before you were a teenager. If you did you shouldn’t have kissed him. But you did so get over it. It’s the past. We all make mistakes.
yay 4 pedophiles lol jk ur sick lol. bu i agree them 14-16 year olds r getting hot these days. when i was a kid they didnt look the way they do now but they still got me goin lol mind u i was little too at the time
way out of their age!!!…haha…
You need to go talk to a psychiatrist, and if you feel completely helpless then voluntary chemical castration could help, it obviously helps with the physical side of things but the cut off of horomones helps.
Fantasising about pre-pubesant girls is not normal and it is not healthy. It seems you know that ever acting on your impulse would be wrong but induldging in your fantasies are only going to make it harder for you to control yourself if a situation came up where you have the chance to act. I think instead of talking to others who share the same fantasies is making it harder for you to walk away from this. You need to find people who have experienced these feelings and are trying to walk away from it, not induldge in it. Also try to remember that these are children, being a child is the one time in life you get to feel innocent and safe. Don’t take that away.
I would recommend seeing a professional about this. Although we all have odd desires, some are a bit more dangerous than others. I am not suggesting that you are a bad person — far from it. However, any auxiliary help in retaining control over these particular feelings would be beneficial. In addition, you should recognize that a fixation on the guilt that you experience could actually exacerbate the problem — it becomes a vicious cycle, where the thought drives guilt, the guilt drives a focus upon the thought, and the focus upon the thought makes it evidence itself more strongly. Overall, my recommendation is to see a mental-health professional. I have problems of my own, and I can attest to how useful therapy is. Just be sure to make sure that your selected therapist is a good choice for you!
See a therapist a good one wont judge you for getting help you havent touched anyone and thats great you also recognise that what your feeling isnt right. Get some help :) i wish you all the best.
I think that since you don’t believe in the devil that you don’t know that he is influencing you. He wants to destroy you and sift you like wheat. Get some spiritual help as well as psycological help.
This is real my friend. Have you notice the number of pedophiles these days. Society really don’t have a clue that the devil is getting into people and doing terrible things. He wants to destroy the young because thier the future. Don’t let him use you and destroy you as well. Just as their is God, evil is here too. Only God has power over him.
However if your Gods you have power too. You can order him to get away from you in the name of Jesus and I guarantee your feeling of pedopilia will subside. But you must continually pray to God and continually tell him to leave you. Eventually he go for good. Then come back with something new for you. Thats what lifes about. We need Jesus every step of the way.
God Bless and Stay strong