RSSDisturbing Fantasies
I don’t know whats wrong with me. I constantly find my self fantasizing about my husband having sex with other women. Just the idea of it gets me very aroused. Usually, I imagine him having sex with a random woman but, more and more I fantasize about him having sex with some one we know like our friends, an acquaintance (like one of my children’s teachers), or even my sister. Frequently when I meet someone new I immediately imagine what it would be like to see my husband to make love to her. I am totally afraid to discuss this with him or anyone for that matter! My relationship with my husband has never been better. I have never had any homo-erotic feelings either. I worry about it a lot. I just don’t know what’s wrong with me.
Anonymous on June 25th 2008 in Guilt
Princess Starbucks said on 25 Jun 2008 at 11:34 pm # Quote
That’s not disturbing, its just being kinky. You should tell your husband. Trust me he will think that’s hot.
me said on 27 Jun 2008 at 5:59 am # Quote
tell him. he’ll definitely think it’s hot! isn’t that every guy’s dream, that their wife/girlfriends tells them that they would think it was hot if they had sex with another woman? ..
Geoff said on 28 Jun 2008 at 11:29 am # Quote
Yes I agree. Maybe you should do some play-acting… dress up and pretend to be someone else. If that doesn’t get it out if your system then just tell him. Maybe you should just masturbate a lot and see if that gets you some relief. Good luck. Please be careful and don’t screw up your marriage though. Your husband is very lucky.
Some Dude said on 03 Jul 2008 at 12:37 pm # Quote
Maybe u just think the woman is hot and u wanna have a 3 sum……maybe its a stupid idea but go for it!!
Eleni said on 03 Jul 2008 at 5:41 pm # Quote
Trust me, fantasies about your husband ******* another woman and the REALITY of your husband ******* another woman are two different things entirely. Unless you are sure you can handle it, I would just enjoy the fantasy for yourself and not even bring it up. Be careful what you wish for.
writer said on 15 Jul 2008 at 1:17 pm # Quote
um, I think maybe you want someone else to do it so you don’t have to? I mean, that’s what my mom sort of did, she knew my dad liked someone as a friend, she is like her best friend growing up? she went out of her way to leave them opportunities to be together and I think she knew they would do it. she pretends not to know, but it’s obvious you know? but I think she felt guilty because she has sort of lost her desire to have sex so she lets him do her friend. that’s how I see it anyway. I kind of think she told her friend it is ok or something they are like friends that just do it from time to time.
I couldn’t handle that in my relationship but I’m not in my mom’s shoes. she seems happy.
me said on 18 Jul 2008 at 2:14 am # Quote
Tell Him Tell Him Tell Him…lol I could have written your “confession” myself.. except that I do tell my husband. We have amazing sex when we talk about it. Go for it your husband will be so turned on.. but definetly keep to the fantasies. I’ve been with my husband for 10 years not that we don’t have amazing sex without fantasies but it definetly makes our sex life even more exciting. My hubby loves when I go into detail.. it’s just awesome.
anonyms said on 02 Oct 2008 at 12:14 am # Quote
i have a bfrnd for the past 5 yrs… n at times even i fantasize him havin sex with my frnds or othr women we knw..but i knw i wud never really want him to do this in reality..also i gues in my case i thnk abt this because i think dat because of my small breasts im not able to satisfy my bfrnd..wanna see him play with real breasts therefore..
Kevin said on 19 Nov 2008 at 3:17 pm # Quote
There’s nothing wrong with you.