Disturbing Fantasies
Posted by Anonymous in Guilt on Jun 25th, 2008 | 15 commentsI don’t know whats wrong with me. I constantly find my self fantasizing about my husband having sex with other women. Just the idea of it gets me very aroused. Usually, I imagine him having sex with a random woman but, more and more I fantasize about him having sex with some one we know like our friends, an acquaintance (like one of my children’s teachers), or even my sister. Frequently when I meet someone new I immediately imagine what it would be like to see my husband to make love to her. I am totally afraid to discuss this with him or anyone for that matter! My relationship with my husband has never been better. I have never had any homo-erotic feelings either. I worry about it a lot. I just don’t know what’s wrong with me.
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That’s not disturbing, its just being kinky. You should tell your husband. Trust me he will think that’s hot.
tell him. he’ll definitely think it’s hot! isn’t that every guy’s dream, that their wife/girlfriends tells them that they would think it was hot if they had sex with another woman? ..
Yes I agree. Maybe you should do some play-acting… dress up and pretend to be someone else. If that doesn’t get it out if your system then just tell him. Maybe you should just masturbate a lot and see if that gets you some relief. Good luck. Please be careful and don’t screw up your marriage though. Your husband is very lucky.
Maybe u just think the woman is hot and u wanna have a 3 sum……maybe its a stupid idea but go for it!!
Trust me, fantasies about your husband ******* another woman and the REALITY of your husband ******* another woman are two different things entirely. Unless you are sure you can handle it, I would just enjoy the fantasy for yourself and not even bring it up. Be careful what you wish for.
um, I think maybe you want someone else to do it so you don’t have to? I mean, that’s what my mom sort of did, she knew my dad liked someone as a friend, she is like her best friend growing up? she went out of her way to leave them opportunities to be together and I think she knew they would do it. she pretends not to know, but it’s obvious you know? but I think she felt guilty because she has sort of lost her desire to have sex so she lets him do her friend. that’s how I see it anyway. I kind of think she told her friend it is ok or something they are like friends that just do it from time to time.
I couldn’t handle that in my relationship but I’m not in my mom’s shoes. she seems happy.
Tell Him Tell Him Tell Him…lol I could have written your “confession” myself.. except that I do tell my husband. We have amazing sex when we talk about it. Go for it your husband will be so turned on.. but definetly keep to the fantasies. I’ve been with my husband for 10 years not that we don’t have amazing sex without fantasies but it definetly makes our sex life even more exciting. My hubby loves when I go into detail.. it’s just awesome.
i have a bfrnd for the past 5 yrs… n at times even i fantasize him havin sex with my frnds or othr women we knw..but i knw i wud never really want him to do this in reality..also i gues in my case i thnk abt this because i think dat because of my small breasts im not able to satisfy my bfrnd..wanna see him play with real breasts therefore..
There’s nothing wrong with you.
I used to have this fantasy ALL the time. I left my husband 5 months ago after we acted on it, it KILLED me and I lost all respect for him… DONT do it, if you really love your husband..
well the way i see it either way you’re screwed you either have the fantasy & cant do anything about it or you do it & you’re husband starts hooking up with random people…sorry
you are growing up in every sense
as you liberate yrself from the physicall
restrictions of past.
its a new life give it a try and go for it
if u might end up loosing yr man donot worry
he will come back to u
My girlfriend of three years has this same fantasy. She first brought it to my attention subtly by asking me to watch various porno with her. Of course all porn has two men on one woman, scenes with two women on one man. One night she asked me if I ever wanted to try any of those scenes. At first I thought we were playing a game. So we would go through the movies and point out what we would, and would not do.
Eventually She started saying things like ; ” I could see you doing that with Kimmy on the corner.” Before I knew it, she had the entire thing set up, with lists of people, places and everything.
You are the best wife EVAR!!!!!
My take is:
You fantasizing about your husband doing another woman is a subconscious desire to do another woman yourself but in the role of you been the man, u want to use your husband as a proxy because you don’t want to accept your lesbian feelings.
my humble opinion