Comments on: Cheating on my husband.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 17:22:32 +0000

It all boils down to this Anonymous, if this didn’t bother you and you didn’t feel no guilt about it we would of never heard this story. The fact that you sent this story in means that the guilt that comes with cheating is weighing you down big time. The problem is you think your actualy getting what you need from this right now but let me tell you it’s a very short term fix and at the end of the day your problems are still going to be there staring you dead in the eye. It’s just that now you’ve made it worse for you, your baby, and your husband. At some point you gotta stop being all about me me me and start thing about your family first(novel idea)right! Act like a grownup and do whats right it may hurt at first but in the end it will all work out. And you can love your parents and still be your own person. GROW UP!!!

By: sad

sad — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 03:21:47 +0000

There are morales lacking here. No one should ever cheat on their spouse. Selfishness is a world wide problem in American Society. How sad!!!!!!!

By: sad

sad — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 03:13:40 +0000

I bet you will stop when you are diagnosed with HIV from cheating on your husband and having the one night stands. Once you get HIV, there is no cure.

By: Will

Will — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 04:07:19 +0000

I agree. Do what makes you happy. Leave him one day if you want.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Mon, 18 Jul 2011 01:22:45 +0000

:) Im a guy and i love when woman say stuff like that.. lol.. not trying to be sick.. Do what you gotta do girl just dont ever tell him about it!

By: Joe

Joe — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 12:37:40 +0000

Your honesty is commendable. If it bothers you that you’re cheating on your husband, think carefully about how you would feel were the situation reversed. Would you like finding out that your husband is cheating on you. How would his doing so affect your relationship? Anyway, if you respect your husband and your marriage, stop cheating today but if you must have the new man in your life, be honest and separate from your husband. The racial choice of your mate is really not the issue here; it’s that you are being reminded of an old love who happens to be white. If your preference is to marry someone white, why not confront your relatives with your choice. You have a right to love whomever you choose, regardless of race but you are doing this whole process wrong by cheating on your husband.

By: lily

lily — Tue, 12 Jul 2011 23:52:04 +0000

Okay i feel for you and the situation! Your husband deserves to know but it can be so hard. Maybe you can seek counseling to help you come to a resolution. I am also married and unforunately the same thing is happening me! Yes am sleeping with a white guy now and I fear telling my husband.

By: J

Mon, 28 Mar 2011 02:19:37 +0000

Here, Here! Very well said Herb!;-) You’re my Hero.:)

By: Guest

Guest — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 03:45:57 +0000

In other words, he could get even with you by doing the same thing you did to him in the past, which is safer, rather than killing that other white guy like some black guys would do if they caught their black gf or wife with another man of a different race. Believe it or not, men get back at wives who cheat on them like crazy by doing the same thing.

By: Saved

Saved — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 05:32:11 +0000

Gold, why don’t you leave? What is holding you back? You shouldn’t have to live like this and be unhappy. You are still so young and can make a life with someone who can make you happy.