Attraction to little girls.

After coming into this site and reading some of the confessions i thought that it might help me to tell somebody in the world about my problem. I think im attracted to little girls. I have never touched one or laid a finger on one before but i always seem to get horney around them.

I know it is sick, and i can recognize that, and i honestly believe that i have strong enough morals to never harm or to touch little girls, but that is what gets me off.

I have looked at pictures in the past, but have never touched a little girl ever.

I think that what is wrong with me is that i completely understand that it is wrong, but what scares me is that once i get horney i cant stop. I try to keep things to my imagination, once in a while on the computer. It is not until afterwords that i feel any remorse.

I know that this is sick but i dont think that i can tell anybody. I dont know why i am not attracted to girls of my own age? Im 19, not bad looking, i have a good paying job, my own house, and i am getting 3.9gpa in my university program.

This is the small bump in my life that i cant seem to get over. Any advice?



10 Responses to “ “Attraction to little girls.”

  1. Anonymouse says:

    Well, for starters, just a heads up… REAAAALLY try and keep it in your imagination, because having possesion of kiddie porn is illegal where I’m from. And did you ever think about going to a phyciatrist or getting some professional help? Because getting turned on by little girls is a problem. Good luck with your struggle, and I hope you’re true to your word and never take action on your desires.

  2. Anonymous says:

    First of all, possesion of kiddie porn is illegal. Secondly, get some help. Go see a pshyciatrist. Thirdly, if you must relieve yourself, keep it in your imagination. And I hope for your sake you keep your word and don’t ever act out. You will RUIN a little girls life forever. Think about this the next time you get horney and watch kiddie porn, that is someones baby. Someones daughtere. Someones life.

  3. noelle says:

    What ages are you talkin about 15 16 or younger?

  4. Anonymous says:

    You have got to seek professional help for this. Major props to you for recognizing you have a problem. I know that counseling is scary, but you have got to do it. If the urges get too strong (and they will) then one day you will act on that, and it will be too late.
    I pray you get the help you need before you ruin a child’s life and your own. Looking at pictures is already going to far. Child pornography is illegal and if you get caught your life is over. Not too mention a poor child’s innocence has been taken from them and they are being used and exploited.
    PS do you have a history of sexual abuse? These things usually repeat themselves with the victim growing up and becoming the abuser.

  5. dee says:

    I’ve been there before, the difference is that im a girl. the urges will eventually catch up… and it’s horrible when it does. im only 18, but ir happened when i was younger and didnt know wrong from right. it happened as a retaliation to what had been done to me. as much as i hate to say this, youre going to have to get some help with this. its the best thing to do. if you ever wanna talk about it, im here. just reply to this and i will be there for you.

  6. His says:

    you have done a very brave thing in admitting what you have admitted. It is the first step – of many steps. Your heart is crying out for help, don’t let this guilt enslave you because these things are not you, you are being enslaved by something unseen. Honest, truth and light are the first steps towards freedom from these thoughts, and because they are not you – once you get rid of the root, freedom is possible.

    I don’t know if you believe in the spiritual realm. It doesn’t matter if you do. Not believing in air doesn’t cause it to not exist or affect your life. It is the same with the Spiritual. What is affecting your thoughts in this evil to harm a defenseless child is not your own nature, but is demonic influence. I am not saying you are possessed and there is no need for you to be frightened.

    I do not have shared experience but I have experienced the spiritual realm and I can sypathise.
    Basically as I have experienced it there are two options. We can live without God and be “free” – when infact that means that we are defenseless against the demonic realm. Demons are evil Spirits which try to keep as low a key as possible- they give us evil thoughts, prompt us to do evil actions – all without us realising that it is not us… and if you allow on to posses you they can fully control your being – at this point of extremity others who know you will realise that it is not you and that you are controlled by something outside of yourself.

    there is alot of watered down crappie Christianity out there.. but if you go to the red letters in a bible – the words that Jesus spoke you will realise that because of our enslavement to Satan – to a small degree (thoughts) or to a large degree (possession) this is why Jesus came to earth, a blood convenant to buy back our right to relationship with God, to see Captives to demonic power free.. Jesus said I give you authority in my name to cast out demons – to prevent their influence to set captives free… alot of the church/christians are not doing this.. Im sorry I can’t just direct you to your nearest CHristian and they could help you. Although authority has been given many don’t function in it.

    Basically, Jesus has the power to set your mind free from those thoughts.. would you like that? Then pray (talk to God) and say Jesus take my heart, Im ready for you to be in control and not these rogue demons. Ask God to receive His Holy Spirit – which enters us to influence us to do good and then ask for a strategy to get rid of these buggers. You will have authority to drive these thoughts out. To be free from things that your heart desires where not there. ..

    its an inward battle..
    Im not a normal “Christian” saying – Accept Jesus and be the same..
    Im saying Jesus is a bad ass warrior who loves you – your person, your heart enough to die for you – crazy right.. you are the apple of his eye.. he created only one you and has no other to take your place… and He has already beaten these guys… get on His team!

  7. Anonymous says:

    19 yrs with a house, good paying job and goes to school?

  8. Original Poster says:

    Hi there guys thanks for all of the constructive advice. I am building the courage to go seek help. Since the night that i posted this i have been “clean” so to speak. I think i finally broke down one night, posted this, and decided enough was enough, why ruin my life over this.

    Noelle, to answer your question, it was more or less pre pubecent. I know its sick, but i really feel that its done.

    To the reply above, I know that i have things lucky, and i should be very happy for what i have, and i am starting to realize that.

    His,

    I am not really a spiritual guy, but what you said really touched me. Thanks so much for believing in me. Because of you i think that this phase is past. I may still go seek help, but you have to understand im the independant 19 year old, ive got to get over my ego and get whats necessary done.

    Thanks everybody,

    -Random Guy

  9. hmm says:

    Sorry to say this but, it isn’t a phase. Especially if you are not attracted to any girls your own age. Maybe you were a victim yourself and don’t remember because you were too young or you blocked it out of memory. But I think these feelings you have are a part of your sexuality and the only thing you can do is see a therapist and keep your hands to yourself. Good luck

  10. xiz says:

    just stay away from kids. thoughts arn’t bad until you act on them

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