Comments on: afraid of being cheated on http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/afraid-of-being-cheated-on Confess your deepest, darkest secret Thu, 08 Jan 2009 17:13:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Jaunty Mellifluous http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/afraid-of-being-cheated-on/comment-page-1#comment-2444 Jaunty Mellifluous Wed, 01 Oct 2008 13:48:19 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=393#comment-2444 Well, there's no real knowing what her real feelings are about you. Just don't be paranoid about it. You can't force anyone to live with you if they don't want to. Even if you want them too. All you can do is make them feel easy about about their decisions. Just tell her whenever you get the chance that she can go out with someone else if she wants to but she'll have to tell you before she does anything and that will be the last of your relationship with her. And that you won't hold any regrets. Well, there’s no real knowing what her real feelings are about you. Just don’t be paranoid about it.

You can’t force anyone to live with you if they don’t want to. Even if you want them too. All you can do is make them feel easy about about their decisions.

Just tell her whenever you get the chance that she can go out with someone else if she wants to but she’ll have to tell you before she does anything and that will be the last of your relationship with her. And that you won’t hold any regrets.

]]> By: Maya http://www.secret-confessions.com/guilt/afraid-of-being-cheated-on/comment-page-1#comment-1712 Maya Wed, 28 May 2008 16:02:49 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=393#comment-1712 I'm notentirely sure why this should be put in the 'guilty' section, but hey. I know it is so much harder done than said but i realy do think you should talk to your girlfriend. A true relationship is an honest and open one and therefore it would not be nearly as a passionate relationship if you hide these doubts. By her keeping telling you (randomly...thats the impression im getting) means she feels your doubt and she might be covering her tracks. If you still doubt her by the end of the conversation, what is the point in staying in a doubtful relationship when you could be flirting and being with this girl that makes you feel great? just an idea. I’m notentirely sure why this should be put in the ‘guilty’ section, but hey.
I know it is so much harder done than said but i realy do think you should talk to your girlfriend. A true relationship is an honest and open one and therefore it would not be nearly as a passionate relationship if you hide these doubts. By her keeping telling you (randomly…thats the impression im getting) means she feels your doubt and she might be covering her tracks. If you still doubt her by the end of the conversation, what is the point in staying in a doubtful relationship when you could be flirting and being with this girl that makes you feel great?
just an idea.

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