afraid of being cheated on
Posted by Anonymous in Guilt on May 26th, 2008 | 3 commentsOk, so this is kind of complicated and probably all my fault, i’ve been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, my last relationship ended horribly and i only found out later that she had cheated on me. my g/f now tells me that she loves me and only me but every once in a while i get the feeling like she’s been doing something (i don’t know what exactly) behind my back, kind of like my ex was acting before we broke up. what’s worse is that i have a friend that i love spending time with, but every time i see her or talk to her, i get this feeling like i just want to end my relationship and ask out my friend. help please?
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I’m notentirely sure why this should be put in the ‘guilty’ section, but hey.
I know it is so much harder done than said but i realy do think you should talk to your girlfriend. A true relationship is an honest and open one and therefore it would not be nearly as a passionate relationship if you hide these doubts. By her keeping telling you (randomly…thats the impression im getting) means she feels your doubt and she might be covering her tracks. If you still doubt her by the end of the conversation, what is the point in staying in a doubtful relationship when you could be flirting and being with this girl that makes you feel great?
just an idea.
Well, there’s no real knowing what her real feelings are about you. Just don’t be paranoid about it.
You can’t force anyone to live with you if they don’t want to. Even if you want them too. All you can do is make them feel easy about about their decisions.
Just tell her whenever you get the chance that she can go out with someone else if she wants to but she’ll have to tell you before she does anything and that will be the last of your relationship with her. And that you won’t hold any regrets.
somewhere inside you know you shouldn’t be with your gf.