RSSThreat.
I hate to say it, but I hate my best friend’s boyfriend. I want her to be happy, but not with him. Not when he sees me as a constant threat, not when he tells her not to be friends with me just because I make her happy too.
He wants to be the only thing in her life, and I want him to be gone.
Anytime I try to tell her that it doesn’t seem like a healthy relationship, she tells me that I don’t see them together - of course I don’t! He doesn’t allow her near me when they’re together! He literally drags her away and brushes me off.
She’s not going to college so she can wait for him when he goes into the armed forces.
I can’t even tell her what a mistake that is without “trying to ruin they’re relationship.” I’m not a threat, I’m a friend.
KJ on May 20th 2008 in Friends
Someone! said on 20 May 2008 at 11:22 am # Quote
You’ve warned her. Let her have it her way for a while… Just be there as a friend whatever happens… she will come to realize that she shouldn’t have left (for a while) while she has a boyfriend…. or probably, she thinks it is OKAY because you are her friend and you SHOULD understand her.. if that’s how she thinks of it as is! How many months are they together now? If they are new, give her the time! Lots of room! Boyfriends come and go…..
sophia said on 22 May 2008 at 3:51 pm # Quote
you should tell her how you feel and to trust you she might give up her education for him it may be hard but it will help her if you are really good friend she whould understand if she gets mad stand by her be faithful even if shes mad she might not know but she really needs your help