RSSThese people suck…
I call them my “best friends”, but they mean no more to me than the next guy I pass on the street. My roomates are so mean to me, but it’s not in an upfront, in your face kinda way. Just tonight they left to go out to eat without me while I was in the shower… they just left me without inviting me to go along or anything. They constantly instant message each other and text message bad things about me while I’m in the room. It hurts my feelings so so bad. However, I never say anything. I pretend like everything is ok, but inside I want to die. I wish I had friends who appreciated me and talked to me about things. I know one day, I will explode and who knows whats gonna happen… I believe that day is fast approaching
Lee on February 19th 2008 in Friends
been there said on 20 Feb 2008 at 5:19 pm # Quote
Don’t loose your cool over these people. What I mean is, don’t do anything crazy or drastic to ruin the rest of your life. You need to take control of your own path and a good place to start…find a new place to live. I learned that people can hurt you or use you ONLY if YOU allow them to. Stick up for yourself, verbally please, and start to change for the positive.
Good luck…you can do it!
Someone said on 20 Feb 2008 at 6:49 pm # Quote
Forget these “friends” of yours. If they are truly your friends, they won’t do anything to hurt you. Meet other people! It’s time to stand up for yourself. They are worthless!!!! I’m sure you’ll meet friends who’ll accept the YOU. DOn’t let these people bug you…. It’s a good thing you found out the real THEM before you ask them let us say, favors that you need….
Lara said on 21 Feb 2008 at 4:21 pm # Quote
I am sorry to hear that. But thank them, because when you go out and get real friends that love you for YOU, you will appreciate them all the more. I feel sorry for them that they would treat someone like that. I have been the victim of this too. But it is not you. Go do your OWN thing. Go find fun people and don’t waste ANY more time than you have to around these people. Go do activities that you truly enjoy, that feed your soul. You’ll meet people with similar interests if you do do stuff you like to do. Another way to meet people who like the things you do is on meetup.com. It’s a big, big world out there full of so many wonderful people these sad roommates of yours. Be good to yourself. LOVE yourself just as you are! It sounds goofy, but tell YOURSELF “i love you” every day. And go do the things that you enjoy doing!
polena said on 22 Mar 2008 at 4:08 pm # Quote
I agree with the previous posts, stand up for yourself, get away from them if possible. Let out the hurt by typing or writing, whatever safe to get the hurt emotional energy out. It isn’t healthy. Go out and socialise with other people, and pick the best for yourself!
Do these slowly until you’re comfortable, but do it!
You deserve better,
Good luck!