Suicide
Posted by gds in Friends on Mar 8th, 2009 | 12 commentsmy friend Sara committed suicide today. i feel betrayed. killing yourself is the meanest thing you can do to someone its like a big up yours to all the people you leave behind. i m heartbroken i never knew her to be a depressed girl. i just wish people my age could know that its always better the next day.
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I’m sorry for your loss. Please do not stay angry with her about it.I know anger is a way of healing but From personal experience she didn’t mean it as a big up yours. She saw it as a last resort.
I had a friend who drank way too much one night in high school and in a rage shot himself in his parents closet so they would walk in and find him there. Something he would have never done sober. It is a very selfish thing to do, but you have to forgive your friend. Sooner the better. Some people never recover from stuff like this, but you can. Focus on the positives in your life. :)
i am so sorry. i just wanted you to know that what she did wasn’t selfish. she was in deep pain and the only way ahe could think to deal with it was suicide. try not to feel angry. i don’t think she would want you to be angyr or upset (cliche, i know, but true.)
A lot of times, when people think about committing suicide, they wonder if they should feel guilty or selfish, and then they either make a fatal attempt or tell themselves they’re putting it off. Most of the people that do it, that actually take their lives, they think they’re hurting you by living. They tell themselves it doesn’t matter if they’re gone, or it’ll be good if they’re gone, even if they know you care, because they feel like a detriment to the world. So its not your fault, it’s not that she didn’t know you cared, and she wasn’t betraying you, she just gave up too soon.
my father committed suicide 2 months ago. he shot my mom too. she made it. pray, it will get easier.
yea well
the truth is,
tomorrow isnt always better
I am so ******* tired of people like you who make it all about YOU when something like this happens. what about her? u didnt know shit, how attentive were u dumbass? if you hadn’t been so fricking wrapped up in yourself and making shit all about you, you might have noticed.
and **** u and your unicorns and sunshine, it is NOT always better the next day.
Don’t think about her anymore or the last post either. Thinking about her is a waste of mind. And it’s not your fault that you didn’t notice- what are you psychic?
Forget her, you don’t need her, never did. All in all, people are expendable. We all are. We all die eventually.
Once you can accept that. Then it is better the next day, because who the **** cares anyway.
Go on, and live your life.
I think that you should not think that your friend killed herself because of you. She is not saying that at all. I agree that she must have been in a bad place emotionaly, mentaly, and spiritualy. She was looking for a way out and that was the only way she knew. don’t be mad at her, you might have known situations that have happened in her life to make her feel the way she did, but you cant feel someone elses pain. just remember her for the kind of friend and person she was. for some people, they cant find the next day.
STOP VICTIMIZING YOURSELF. YOUR FRIEND WAS THE VICTIM NOT YOU. GEEZ OPEN YOUR F****** EYES!
I am praying for you!
A lo-ot of people that have suicidal thoughts, or that have depression, hide it from the people they were close to. It’s not your fault! Please try and move on from this.