My best friend, (23) got engaged after only about 6 months, to a 37 year old. They are already getting married next summer. I wouldn’t have a problem with it I hadn’t heard really sketchy things about him. I have heard from numerous people, people that don’t even know her, that; he has a criminal background; he has been engaged before (he told her he never has); he’s commited insurance fraud; his family does not approve of the marriage; and that his friends are saying that he gave her a ring to shut her up, in addition to other things. I don’t know what to do at this point. Should I tell her or not tell her? I feel like if I do she wont believe me and will turn on me.