My Best Friend…
Posted by Darling in Friends on Aug 14th, 2010 | 8 commentsI really hate my best friend. She’s a bitch. And it’s all too much when I’m near her. All that matters to her is her boyfriend, her ex boyfriend, and how much she hates boys. We’ve messed around a little bit. I’m 10 % gay, 90% straight, I thought that it would be fine. She’s bi, and she talks like she’s in love with me, but she’s awful. If she can’t have me, no one can. Any boy I come close to her claws are out and ready to attack. It’s insane. Then she’s talks like she owns me, like I’m her property. I hate her. She’s a bitch. She’s horrid and frankly the problem is, for some reason I love her too. It sucks. Help?
Oh, and talking to her about it, forget it. She would freak out and bitch and scream and it would all be over.
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She’s a control freak and nothing else. She doesn’t care about you or her boyfriend or anyone. There’s nothing to talk about. Just quit seeing her and talking to her, this relationship is really bad for you and it’s only going to continue to be bad for you.. Find some other friends, she will freak out but too bad, don’t get wrapped up in her moods and drama. She sounds like a toxic person
Oh wow! A friendship made in hell. She’s a bully and you’re a masochist. She knows how to work you and manipulate you, and you kind of like the helplessness she induces in you. Classic co-dependents. The bitch/slave relationship. She probably makes you laugh too. She ‘gets’ you, and for two narcissists like you two, that’s irresistable.
You need to find a new best friend or just wait until one of you does something so terrible, awful and just plain nasty that you stop speaking altogether.
In the meantime, grow up or shut up. No one is holding gun to your head and forcing you to be friends with her.
Maybe you actually need each other?
Maybe, a small part of you enjoys being treated like this. Otherwise, why would you put up with it?
You have the power to move on and seek healthier relationships.
I am probably gonna see you two on that show Wicked Attraction or some shit. You obviously enjoy being walked on. That is the only reason you would still stay, unless you think she will kill you or something if you leave her. My guess is you like it, deep down or not.
I strongly believe you are right. All of you. Well, I’m gonna tell her tomorrow. :D
she’s just selfish.
i would stay away from her because one will not find happiness being around her
Good job, Darling.. Don’t be surprised if you don’t get the kind of reaction that you expect. She may try and lie and sucker her way back in, or try and twist the reality of it: that’s how abusive people are but remember, you don’t owe her one d*mn thing!!
She did, thankfully, I know her tricks. :) I’m good now, finding friends who really like being with me, apposed to owning my soul with shedevil ways.