just accept me for who i am!!
Posted by kebby in Friends on Dec 17th, 2009 | 11 commentsi’m asexual. i always have been as far as i can remember. i don’t want sex or a relationship etc. kissing and the idea of snogging makes me want to vomit. i don’t want kids either. i can’t stand kids!! the sounds of them crying just make me wish i was hard of hearing sometimes. i’d rather have a newborn kitten than a newborn baby.
i’m teetotal and hate alcohol. its disgusting!! the effects of what they do to you are disgraceful. and people see fun in ‘getting drunk/wasted/hammered’? not me. there is more to life than alcohol. my friends have only one love, and that love is alcohol. people choose others over me just because i don’t like alcohol or drinking. JUST ACCEPT THE FACT THAT I DON’T WANT TO DRINK & THAT I WON’T DRINK!! i don’t really have much of a social life just because i don’t drink.
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haha…kidz are wonderful what the heck is wrong with you? they are mischiveous but wonderful. animals are lovely…open your eyes man,i love cats…dogs…all sort of animals you must have no heart…do you even have a dog??? sex,yes im craving that lately,but my cold girlfriend wont give me ***** hahaha…she is too the conservative type,that is why i have to go the strippers to have a good look at that sweet thang……hahaa…
well,drinking is played out, i have been too many a times drunk…no good anymore…been there done that…is boring, i rather drink with a beautiful woman at my side,not a boring old woman who complains of everthing…social life with the same people is not social besides is more fun,meeting new people all the time, have you said hello to your neightbor i bet not…i think you need some big d**K and i know where you can get it….if you ask nicely…we might ridly for all nightly ,hehe
and is just a joke…dont be serious…and get mad PLEASE..
I’m sorry but you don’t have a social life not because you don’t drink, but because you don’t want to have a social life…. because I have many friends that don’t drink or anything like that and hang out with me any other people who do drink they have fun with us and that’s the point of it…. just admit that you don’t like people in general and that you rather be alone at you house that even try to meet anyone or have fun.
If your friends dont like you because you dont drink.. then there’s something wrong with your friends.. not you.
I completely understand where you coming from. I’m the same way….hate children, only have friends because I pretend to care what they are talking about. I would rather spend time home with my dogs and cat than go out and drink, but because my friends bitch about me not coming out I make the occasional night out on the town to shut them up.
The point is, nobody will really accept us for who we are because we deviate from what is normal. It’s not normal to want to be alone, and to hate children, and if you say those things to people they won’t accept you. So you get good at faking it with people, you pretend to like other peoples children and go out once in awhile. You don’t have to get drunk, but maybe have a drink or two. Just nod your head and smile while people are talking to you, but really be thinking of how stupid they sound and what you’ll do when you get home :)
Wow, I wish I could find a guy like you! I hate kids, just…ew. But unfortunatly teenage guys aren’t like that, if your even a guy…lol but nice. Who cares if you dont drink and shit? Then you wont be the kind to hit people with your car, people should be lucky that your around, your the dependable type.
I know exactly how you feel – I have been tee total all my life and it is so difficult in this day and age! I’m a student and going through university being ‘the one who doesn’t drink’ is so hard. When you tell people you don’t drink they look at you like you’re mad. Anything that goes against the ‘norm’ leaves you open to feeling vulnerable but it is only those who are the strongest who can maintain being true to themselves. I’m 22 and have not drunk a drop of alcohol all my life and, if I ever change my mind and decide do, it sure as hell won’t be because supposed ‘friends’ force me into it. Be yourself and stay true to who you are :)
THANK YOU ONE PERSON WITH COMMON SENSE! I wish I was asexual. I don’t care about sex. I care about love. I believed in true love at one time. But now i know its impossible to find that kind of love in this stupid world full of ppl who only want threesomes and porn and sex. I hate this place. ********* everywhere.
Hopefully you can find someone who accepts you. I’m also asexual. -childfree, and don’t drink whatsoever. My one friend is turning into a vain, sex crazed drunk. This disturbs me greatly. Be true to yourself. **** everyone who has a problem with it.
You may be still coming to terms with the fact that you are an introvert. There’s nothing wrong with preferring your own company to the company of others, and if other people can’t stand that then they were never good friends in the first place.
Not having much of a social life is only a problem if you WANT a social life. Only you can say if you need a social life or not.
I suspect the problem is that you are not really interested in the same things your peers are interested in. You may want to think about hanging out with more mature people, or people with other interests than drinking or sex.
get new friends.