We were best friends throughout elementary, all the way to graduation. Drama and differences separated us, but we found each other again years later. She’s now married with a 3 year old, and I’m happy for her. I’m married with a 4 month old. We’ve tried to catch up several times, and while I still think she’s amazing, her husband is rather neurotic and her kid is a little monster. Her husband is her entire support system, so we can’t just hang out as us two. Her 3 year old cries more than my baby, and can’t go two minutes without yelling or destroying something. Her husband says a lot of really off putting and racist things, and I’m not ever entirely sure if he’s talking to himself or us. I really wish we could be close again, but I just don’t think that’s possible.