i hate her…=[
i hate my bestfriend,she is so much prettier than me,so much more popular than mee.but thats not even the worst part,not to long ago she was the frumpy fat girl who everyone hated and now everyone likes her,everyone wants to be her and everyone wants her…and its never fair…is there somthing wrong with me? i have lost respect for myself because not only do i hate my bestfriend who i have been friends with since second grade but i’m willing to do anything to be better than her…=[*
Cassandra on May 7th 2008 in Friends
JEALOUSY IS A BAD THING said on 08 May 2008 at 10:01 am # Quote
hey girl whats wrong with some of us females in the world ur hating on ur best friend because shes prettier HEY how old are you anyways SO WHAT ur best friend is prettier SO WHAT arent you glad that ur different and NOT the same um not even twins that look alike are the same the best person to be is YOURSELF and hate is a BAD thing to have try to get rid of it ur hating for something thats childish grow up and be happy for ur best friend thats blossomed into a beautiful person and STOP trying to steal her shine if you had ur turn to shine well its ur friends turn to shine now and STOP talking rubbish bout you willing to do anything to be better than her geez you sound soooo desperate for attention hear me good girl and read this well NO FEMALE NO WOMAN should be willing to do anything to lower her quality as a female NOTHING be thankful you are who you are and if you want the shine so badly then keep your body in shape go gym or something then ya when ppl notice you then you can say its worth it STOP bein such a BITCH its not nice of you a best friend from 2nd grade its like you were glad when she was fat and frumpy WHICH IS VERY UNHEALTHY and now shes probably aware of it shes trying to take care of it YOU HATING mmmmm i wonder if it ever occur to you that maybe ur best friend didnt like being fat and frumpy and decided to change!!!!!
Shellie said on 09 May 2008 at 1:33 am # Quote
That’s true,jealousy is very dangerous for friendship as well as for self-grooming.Try to find out your own special talent,which I’m sure you possess,as does every human.U can also be centre of attraction.
U know what,Once I was also fat and unattractive.But,it embarrased me.So,I changed myself.And today I am the Life of my School.U tell me,making my own life better,did I do any harm to anyone???And has your friend done any???Then why do you hate her?
you are said on 09 May 2008 at 3:19 am # Quote
You are better then her..When some one says hi 2 u no matter what they look like i bet u say hi back…and let me guess the friend u hate wouldn’t….u don’t need 2 be better than her…cause u are who are and people will see that….you want 2 be loved for who u are.then 2 be loved for something ur not…and by that ur friend will see once that every 1 see’s that she is being some1 that she is not…then they will hate her…..so be who u are and be proud that u are not like her…because u are better then her….
Someone! said on 09 May 2008 at 5:55 am # Quote
instead of competiting… and since you are both best friends, talk to her how she did it. you shared a lot of stuff and things to talk about… you are jealous of her and you know that. ask her how she do it…. that’s not how best friends do…. be happy for her… you said she is fat but look at her! her confidence and positive attitude made her a new and good person that everyone loves! don’t be bitter! don’t be hard on yourself! look this situation the other way around… BFF!