My husband was out of town for over 5 weeks and our very good friend (who works with my husband) and I hung out a lot and he helped me a lot when one of our animals got sick during my husbands absence. This guy and I have always had a fun, flirty relationship that was always very harmless, hence he is good friends with both myself and my husband. We ended up watching a movie one night, he confessed he wanted to snuggle and it seemed harmless, then one thing turned into another, etc. It happend 3 times, and we spent more time just hanging out in between. I adore him and don’t want it to effect our friendship, but can’t stop thinking about him & miss him not being around so much. Not in the same way as my husband, and I am very much in love with my husband we have a wonderful life and have been together for quite some years now. Has anyone else had a similar situation?