Friends with benefits
Posted by Anonymous in Friends on Oct 29th, 2007 | 13 comments[mature content]
My husband and I are swingers..and it kills me to have to keep it a secret.
My family would me mortified..my friends would not understand and I fear wouldn’t let their children in our house again. Which I could totally be blowing this out of preportion, but I can’t take that chance. We have a couple that we see once a month and we have dinner…swap partners and go to the movies and make out..then find a hotel and ****. We have a great time socially and sexually. We don’t see a new couple every week…just the same one. Do you think my friends would freak if i told them??
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the easiest way to **** up a relatioship.
Is it worth it? What if you get pregnant by one of those outsiders?
I don’t understand… if you love each other, why do you want to share your bodies with anyone else?
And, how do you know the other couple is only with you?
What is good about it?
Does the other guy have a bigger one?
Does the other woman have bigger ones?
How old are most people who do this kind of thing? And how did you ever get started?
Honneyyy !!!! That’s a desition that you and your husband have taken and that’s a very privated thing !! …. You DO NOT have to tell people nor put then into something that they maybe won’t understand (Surelly they WON’T) !!!! ….. Just Keep enjoying your sexuallity and that’s it….. In the other hand, if you don’t feel good anymore doing such things…. Stop Doing it !!! ….. Desition’s yours. Bye….. ‘
i think ur not satisfied with your own husband and so are they….i really dont think that if r truly in luv with ur partnet u can ever see him or her being touched by ne other person…. n if u guys do bear it then i suppose ur just tagging along life …. ur not into one another ……
Why bother telling anyone? Keep it your own dirty little secret! ;)
I think this is something that older people like to do, maybe they are bored with each other? I wonder if it brings some sort of spark back? Isn’t this just like poligamy? You know like having two husbands and two wives? And once you do it with one other couple, don’t you start looking at other couples and wondering if they want to do it also? Where does it stop and when are people satisfied? And, it is normal sex, or do you do crazy things with each other? Do you role play? What’s up with this? Do you have kids? What if your family found out?
Is it worth it? I say, stop diddling each other and keep it at home. Try new things with each other if you are bored, maybe just do each other in new places? Rather than in new people.
whatever makes you happy, brings you joy. who are we to say that you are wrong? we, the sick, twisted, perverse, all with our own secrets.
if you were my friend, i would still love you, but i can’t say much for anyone else.
Don’t confuse your thought’s with feeling’s that cause’s chaos.
Secrets are secret’s until-The truth is revealed.
this just goes to show u what frauds ppl r. putting on a front of nice wife and mommy. what a fraud. u probably play the prudish sweet mommy housewife game. btw if ur gonna do this shit why bother getting married? just screw as a live-in swinging couple and stop the deceit and conning of everyone else. both aspects of ur lives r really big games actually. think about it. how sad.
Woah…do u do it with his wife too? or is it just the husband swap that’s going on?
sometimes i wish i could spouse swap…
So you swingers who cares, my partner has known right from the get go that I’ve wanted to be with a woman, I always have wanted to, when him and I got together I made this very clear that when and if there were the possibility, I’d take it.. now… once in awhile we bring another women into the bed and I LOVE IT! what man wouldnt ;) and now I dont have to secretly fantasize about it cause Im actually doing.. my terms!
I can understand that you might want to tell others. If you do, do you think it will affect your relationships with your relatives and friends, some of whom might be also married? Keep a secret can feel painfully isolating. Maybe you could tell someone who won’t be judgemental of you? Good luck