Friends
Posted by anonymous in Friends on May 28th, 2010 | 4 commentsI hate every last one of my friends for what they’ve done to me, and what I go through every day. I consistently feel abandoned, whenever I just want to hang out, or talk to them, I get blown off. It’s been happening this way for two full years now. I get new friends, and it keeps happening. What am I doing wrong?
Every time I feel like this, I’m reminded of every time in the past that a friend rejected me, or said something about me that wasn’t theirs to share, or just generally ****** with me when things we’re already bad enough. I don’t know how to deal with it anymore.
I just want to be in a group of people where I feel at home. I keep thinking I find it and then this happens again. I always end up crying alone in my room, afraid to go out anymore. I keep telling myself that things will get better, I keep telling myself that I can make friends. But now I’m starting to wonder and worry, is it my fault? What can I do. Please, someone, anyone. Help.
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I’m sorry that you’re having a hard time with your friends.
Is it the kind of people that you are picking. Maybe you always tend to pick the negative type of people? Do you rush the friendships too fast, that it freaks out the other person? I don’t know, I’m only guessing.
You sound like a good person that just needs a break! I would just take things slow, and don’t make any fast decisions when it comes to other people..
I recently went through the same thing.I do everything for my friends and if we go out its what they want to do.I’m too nice.Then when I ask for thier help or see if they want to do something with me i want to do then there is always an excuse.It’s the same with my own family.So I’ve decided to clean the slate and start over but things will be my way from now on and I won’t be saying yes anymore.It’s my way or the highway.
I understand completley. I always get left behind. My friends will go out together and they do similar activities with each other but they never ask me to come along. Whenever i do hang out with them, they always seem bored, distracted, or like they don’t care. One of my friends- who I considered until recently to be close to- never even aknowledged all I have done to support her. I’ll go home and cry sometimes because I feel like no one will ever want to be friends with me. It’s the worst feeling to think that there is something wrong with you because people don’t seem to want to hang around with you. I sincerly hope you find good friends. No one deserves to feel the way that we do.
I hate this. I hate how friends think they are better than there other friends. I guess people are just really insecure. What I’ve realized is that everyone just tries to be popular, and the actualy popular people are the ones who take advantage of others. And for some reason we let that happen…and listen. Cause if we don’t no one else will stand up too. And thats scary, you know, being alone. Theres no set way on solving anyrhing like this. But one way is to find other people like you, who have been pushed aside and abandonded. Thats one thing you already have in common. And together, you both can not only solve your problem, but fix someone elses as well.