Daydreaming

Posted by in Friends on Mar 16th, 2008 | 7 comments

I recently ran into an old friend. We never dated because the timing was never right — I was in a relationship when he was single, he was married when I was single. Now he’s single again, and I am happily married with three kids. The problem? I can’t stop thinking about him.

I know I should put my energy into my marriage instead (My husband is wonderful, handsome, successful and famous), yet all I can think about is my old friend…both sexual and just plain romantic fantasies. I wish I were single so we could just go to the movies, or on a drive together. I keep thinking of ways to run into him again.

I know I need to stop this foolishness. I feel guilty, but I can seem to stop the daydreaming…

7 Responses to “ “Daydreaming”

  1. Lisa says:
    March 17, 2008 at 10:18 am

    You’re crazy. Your husband is wonderful, handsome, successful and famous–and you’re pining after someone else?? Introduce me to your husband!

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  2. Someone says:
    March 18, 2008 at 5:31 pm

    Stop it.

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  3. Ash says:
    March 22, 2008 at 2:39 am

    My boyfriend is successful, smart, funny, handsome…and I can’t stop thinking about a 20 year old with no job. You can’t help who you fall for.

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  4. girl says:
    March 24, 2008 at 4:58 pm

    Ive been feeling the same way about a guy for 7 yrs now and ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 yrs…

    I can honestly say i know how you feel.

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  5. G-TOX says:
    March 30, 2008 at 5:07 am

    think about ur wonderful life….ur three kids u had with ur husband.
    Try and re-discover u love for ur husband.I am sure u’ve had wonderful moments with him.
    Remember his love for u and think about how fortunate u are to have him in ur life.
    And that no-one can give u more happiness that ur husband (not even ur old friend).
    hope..it works.

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  6. another prerson says:
    April 6, 2008 at 1:37 pm

    Good luck with that fantasy…it’s too bad you can’t realize you’re already on the other side with the green grass…I would say more but you’re just bored for attention..you already have much of what you want and need in life.

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  7. J says:
    April 9, 2008 at 12:55 am

    I’ve felt that way before. Just be honest with your husband–don’t tell him you’re thinking about other men, but tell him you are in desperate need of some attention. He may surprise you. It sounds like you just need to feel special again.

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