http://www.secret-confessions.com/friends/best-friend-2 Confess your deepest, darkest secret Thu, 20 Nov 2008 16:29:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 http://www.secret-confessions.com/friends/best-friend-2#comment-1063 Princess Starbucks Fri, 04 Apr 2008 14:58:28 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=362#comment-1063 Well let’s think about it. If you had a baby and lived with someone that is willing to help raise the child let alone not having ever clean up after them self cause some one else will do it. Why leave? Life is good... You need to be very stern with her and both you and your mom need to sit her down and tell her what is on your mind. If you do not communicate, how will she ever know? Then after laying it all on the table if she continues to be a slob and not be there for her baby 100%, then you tell her to get out giving her a fair amount of time to do so. It's easier said then done I'm sure but you have to be in control of what's yours. In this case it would be your home and your sanity... Well let’s think about it. If you had a baby and lived with someone that is willing to help raise the child let alone not having ever clean up after them self cause some one else will do it. Why leave? Life is good… You need to be very stern with her and both you and your mom need to sit her down and tell her what is on your mind. If you do not communicate, how will she ever know? Then after laying it all on the table if she continues to be a slob and not be there for her baby 100%, then you tell her to get out giving her a fair amount of time to do so. It’s easier said then done I’m sure but you have to be in control of what’s yours. In this case it would be your home and your sanity…

]]> http://www.secret-confessions.com/friends/best-friend-2#comment-1062 kt Fri, 04 Apr 2008 09:39:22 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=362#comment-1062 Have a family meeting and tell her she has 30 days to leave so it is legal if she does pay rent. She is only staying cuz she doesn't have to be responsible and it is not helping her one bit! Have a family meeting and tell her she has 30 days to leave so it is legal if she does pay rent. She is only staying cuz she doesn’t have to be responsible and it is not helping her one bit!

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