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i met my best friend in my 3rd yr of high skool and we’ve been close since then. during our first yr of college she got pregnant and she only told her parents at 7 months. as u can imagin they were angry and still are to this day(its been more than a yr)..though her mother speaks to her now .but anyway.. i allowed her to stay with me and my mom and bro because of her family issues at that moment. but living with her hasnt been easy AT ALL!!! seems i liked her better when we werent spending every day together(bad friend huh) my mom doesnt like her either.. and allows her to stay at home only because she’s my friend. i want her to leave the house now cause nobody can stand her anymore.. she’s demanding,likes everything her way,expects u to bend for her,MESSY and sooo much more.. i dont know what to do. i mean..she’s still my best friend and i love helping to take care of the baby…but i want her to leave..her mom doesnt even mind her coming back home,though her dad does. WHY DOESNT SHE WANT TO LEAVE???WE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE
tastyTea on April 4th 2008 in Friends
kt said on 04 Apr 2008 at 7:39 pm # Quote
Have a family meeting and tell her she has 30 days to leave so it is legal if she does pay rent. She is only staying cuz she doesn’t have to be responsible and it is not helping her one bit!
Princess Starbucks said on 05 Apr 2008 at 12:58 am # Quote
Well let’s think about it. If you had a baby and lived with someone that is willing to help raise the child let alone not having ever clean up after them self cause some one else will do it. Why leave? Life is good… You need to be very stern with her and both you and your mom need to sit her down and tell her what is on your mind. If you do not communicate, how will she ever know? Then after laying it all on the table if she continues to be a slob and not be there for her baby 100%, then you tell her to get out giving her a fair amount of time to do so. It’s easier said then done I’m sure but you have to be in control of what’s yours. In this case it would be your home and your sanity…