My best friend told me that she was a lesbian 9 months ago. I pretended to be okay with it but the more time goes on the more I feel like she is just afraid of being alone, but if I tell her this she’ll hate me forever… so I’ll let her make the biggest mistake of her life and be there to help her when it is all over.
so you think that her being gay is a choice? what do u mean by “biggest mistake of her life” does it mean being with another girl?
the question is are you REALLY ok with her being gay?
I had a friend like you. It could be a phase or it may not be. My friend came to accept it in time..hopefully you will too.