RSSSo scared.
My dear friend of many years, who I’ve known over the internet, is coming to visit me for the first time next week. Last night we had phone sex; the anticipation is too much. I recently got out of a really bad relationship of five years. I feel like his coming down to meet me after all these years is going to determine whether I really feel what I feel for him or not, or if it’s just a fantasy. I want him. But I don’t want to ruin the friendship or seem like I’m on the rebound. I’m scared that others will think I’m wanting to do this way too soon. I’ve kept in contact with him throughout my previous relationship. I want him. Badly. But I am so scared.
anon on March 7th 2008 in Fear
Someone said on 08 Mar 2008 at 2:02 pm # Quote
you shouldn’t trust too much on this guy…. i don’t care where he came from! or what he brings to you as a gift!!!
what the—?! phone sex?? if you’re going to meet him, be with your friend… take precaution because you don’t know him personally… it’s only online.
i know someone who fell over heals with a guy online from *name of country*… and tells her he’ll marry her because he is the “prince”…. geez! she really did fell for it! they had an agreement to meet in the airport TWICE. the first time, the guy didn’t show up. the second time around, the guy said he’d be with his mother to meet her for the arangements for their wedding!!!! OMG! no soul came out from that airport for her to meet!
take slow… you’d been to a 5-year relationship…. and i must admit it to you, it doesn’t look or sound good!
hope you read this before you meet him!
anon said on 08 Mar 2008 at 8:37 pm # Quote
I feel sorry for your friend falling for that pile of crap about that guy being a prince in the first place.
anon said on 08 Mar 2008 at 9:03 pm # Quote
Oh and by the way, I don’t need lectures on internet safety and meeting people online. And I know he’s going to be at the airport because he had a confirmation email sent to me by the airline confirm his ticket purchase. So unless he likes spending money on nothing, he’s going to be there.
Oh, and my 5 year relationship started out online as well. Go figure?
saffy_sweet said on 10 Mar 2008 at 6:34 am # Quote
i think someones point is that you keep saying this guy is a friend and yet you had phone sex with him, and to be honest, it doesnt sound like they are lecturing you on the safety of online relationships, theyre just pointing out how they might be.
you just have to be careful because people might not be how they seem over the internet, and NO i dont mean this guys going to be a 56 year-old perv or whatever, i mean the anonymity of the internet lets people show sides of themselves that they dont feel confident enough with in everyday life
Linda said on 10 May 2008 at 6:14 am # Quote
What the hell is phone Sex?????
Talk To Someone About It said on 11 May 2008 at 9:41 am # Quote
People addicted to the internet, get into these sorts of situations.
That’s why everyone needs to really minimise their social vitural communication a little.