Singing embarassment
Posted by Anonymous in Fear on Dec 16th, 2009 | 4 commentsI’ve never seriously sang in front of anyone. I think I have a good voice and I can do good vibrato but I’m too scared of being judged. I’ve never even let my boyfriend of 3 years hear me. He wants to, I think. But, I can’t because I’m too scared. I sing by myself at home all the time and I blast music and sing so loud. No one will ever hear the talent I have, I don’t think.
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Judging talent is a subjective thing. You have no talent. Its up to others to decide if you have talent.
You might want to try going to a kareoke bar and start from there
Many people, including myself, have this problem. They are pretty confident they have a lovely singing voice, but are too scared to share it with other people. Weither judges or just family. A trick I use is if I really want someone to hear me sing, I take my Mom and go into a private room and sing with my back turned to her. Then I ask her for her honest opinin. If she says she likes it, I gather hope. If she says it needs work, she offers to get me singing lessons. I never needed singing lessons, but many people take them. Try maybe signing up for your schools choir. Then other voices will be with yours.
make a utube video
It doesn’t matter what other people think. If you believe you are good then that is good enough. It would be great if you plucked up the confidence to sing to someone one day but as long as singing makes you happy that’s all that matters. You should record a clip of you singing on the computer and then play it to someone. That way you don’t have to sing live for them and you can make sure you sing to your best potential. Music is to be enjoyed – especially if you’re good at it!