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I’m pregnant and I’m scared. I never ever wanted kids and this kid was not planned. I have not told anyone. I hate that I’m scared to tell someone. My mom will be dissappoted in me and I don’t want that. Im afraid that I’ll grow to hate this kid because I dont want him/her, but I can’t bring myself to get a abortion.
tweety on November 14th 2007 in Fear
Sue said on 15 Nov 2007 at 2:02 am # Quote
Please trust your Mom enough to get over it. She will respect you more for telling the truth and looking for guidance. Trust me. I was where you are a long time ago. My daughter is now grown with a family of her own. My life is richer for a thoughtless act. Think about it!
Anonymous said on 15 Nov 2007 at 2:37 am # Quote
i don’t know if you believe in a higher being or not, but if you don’t, now would be the perfect time to start. just pray. to whomever or whatever you may believe in and know that you will love the child. there is no greater love, than the love a mother has for her child. with that being said, just talk to your mom. she may be disappointed but no one can beat you up about this anymore than you are punishing yourself.
izzy said on 09 Jan 2008 at 7:21 am # Quote
you need to think this through very very carefully. it’s an innocent life you have inside of your womb. first of all, tell your mom. one way or another, she’ll find out. it’s better if the truth comes out of YOUR mouth than someone else’s or she gets to the right conclussions. second, if after you have the baby, you still don’t want him/her, adoption is a way to proceed. but think about this very much, because once you do something, there’ no turning back.
best wishes for you!
... said on 29 Mar 2008 at 6:24 pm # Quote
dont hate your child, it isent his or hers fault, i know oke, my moms is like that