Comments on: I Can’t Even Tell Myself

By: linda

linda — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 18:22:08 +0000

when you start running your life on what others think ,then your living thier life not yours””””””””’think about it

By: frizzy

frizzy — Tue, 26 Feb 2008 17:07:08 +0000

i rele think u shudn’t be in favour of dat..things will works out i am sure..better change your outlook..

By: izzy

izzy — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 21:16:02 +0000

girl just go for it!!! your family doesn’t need to know right away. like J said, you may lose the love of your life!! talk to the girl, tell her your situation, and about your family. if she’s worth it, she’ll understand. maybe she’s in the same situation too! go girl!! good luck!

By: j

Fri, 04 Jan 2008 03:35:00 +0000

I think you should just go for it! You might lose the love of your life! just say that she is your best friend. And then tell them when you are ready to come out of the closet

By: amanda

amanda — Sun, 30 Dec 2007 08:18:45 +0000

Honestly i would go with my heart if you like her take things slow and let everything fall into place you can’t help who you fall in love with my mother is married to a woman and when it was first revealed to the family no one accepted it only me her daughter understood and i was 11 at the time but time went on and the family finally came around and now no one has an issue with her choices this is your life and your choices you only get to live your life once so why not live it happy don’t go by what others think or want you to do ,do what you want to do and if that means to be with the same sex then so be it…….There your family and i know your scard of thier reactions but thier your family and they will love you no matter what ,the way i see it is they would want you to do what makes you happy .

By: matias

matias — Tue, 25 Dec 2007 19:43:24 +0000

i really think God made man & woman to be together and i’m NOT homophobic nor a gay hater but i do think its wrong. The bible says that everything is allowed but not everything is convenient & if u think bout it being in such a relation is not really convinient. Now if u talk about love i can tell u this i’ve been in a relationship for 2 years and a half on the distance and i can tell u (even though i think my girl is the most beautifull ever) love has nothing 2 do with physical attraction, but about understanding supporting careing, and so many other things (read corinthians (book of the bible) 13). just liking being with the other person is not enough, u have 2 be able to reveal everything, and (i don’t mean 2 sound offensive) u can’t find that with a person of the same sex. if i were u i’ll talk to this person and tell her that it would not work and if the feelings keep coming i move from the job. this is kinda a very delicate subject and i hope i didn’t sound sexist or offensive. i’ll be praying

By: Dee

Dee — Sun, 23 Dec 2007 01:01:15 +0000

You should go for it and see what happens or you will forget it for the rest of your life.

By: Claire

Claire — Wed, 19 Dec 2007 16:07:49 +0000

i think you should go for it, even if your family doesn’t agree. Afterall, they are your family! I’m sure they’d still love you even if you were doing something they didn’t like.
Good Luck!

By: Pensive

Pensive — Fri, 14 Dec 2007 18:53:36 +0000

If you belong to a church and there is a licensed counsellor there, you can confide in that person and get helpful advice. Your family need not know anything about it.

It seems you may be smart to sit down privately with the woman you mentioned and talk this out. At least you can clear the air and not be so stressed out about your situation.