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I’m afraid I may be a gay.

My penis erects when I meet a good-looking older man. And I usually masturbate along with fantasies of older man? I want to revert to a straight. Please help.

Arena on October 28th 2007 in Fear

6 Responses to “Help”

  1. Futurist said on 29 Oct 2007 at 1:40 am # Quote

    One thing you always have all your life is your power to choose. If you are a churchgoer, you can seek help and counselling. Sometimes when a father is missing in a child’s life this happens, but it doesn’t mean you are gay. Another thing you can do, if you believe in God, is to ask for His help.

  2. Sipedon said on 30 Oct 2007 at 1:36 am # Quote

    Do you ever have inspirations towards women?
    Is there any attraction for women?
    Or are you exclusively aroused by men?
    If you are attracted to both to some degree, then you are making a choice here.
    I recommend that you choose the healthiest life style and the most widely accepted… if you do indeed have a choice. There is trouble ahead for you I’m afraid, if this is your only fixation.

  3. H.H. said on 07 Nov 2007 at 4:25 am # Quote

    If you truly love someone (a boy are a girl)
    than I just can’t believe that God would punish you for true love.
    Just follow your heart…
    Even if you are gay.

  4. Kbah said on 09 Nov 2007 at 2:30 pm # Quote

    Nothing is wrong with being gay, I dont know what country you are from but from my country and my town its not very judgemental on gays. I have grown up in a surrounding who accepts sexuality either way.

    You are normal no matter what, dont feel any different, you are still human!

  5. hey said on 27 Jan 2008 at 9:15 am # Quote

    dont worry, still checking this? hope you’re feeling more confident about yourself. see i struggle with my sexuality and basically ive come down to that it doesnt matter what other people think, as long as it feels the best to you.

  6. choices said on 04 Apr 2008 at 4:46 am # Quote

    I personally belive everyone has the capability to fall in love or find a person of either sex attractive or amusing or sexually arousing or whatever.

    But…

    you’re options are live your life liking who you choose, men, women, transexuals, etc… and be ostrasized for it because thats the society we live in.

    be hetero and always live with that yearning inside of you.

    if it helps i think just about everyone (if the can admit it to themselves) yearns to do or be something that is not deemed socially acceptable. but to most of us the desire to be perceived as normal is greater than the desire act on are inner most desires.

    so i hope that helps. it’ll probably just frustrate you though :)

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Okay, the other night I had a neighborhood party in my driveway. I got way too drunk. I’ve never been that drunk. Problem is I’m not sure if I kissed my neighbor or not (we are both married). I vaguely remember his tongue in my mouth and saying “we can’t get caught” but I’m not sure if I was dreaming or not. It’s driving my crazy and I obviously can’t talk about it with anyone.

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