you are my child you came OUT OF ME
Posted by ANONYMOUS in Family on Dec 7th, 2009 | 7 commentsI’M SORRY FOR WHO YOU HAVE TURNED OUT TO BE….FROM A DIABOLICAL TEENAGER TIL TODAY YOU HAVEN’T CHANGED A BIT….YOU HAVEN’T GROWN EMOTIONALLY, MENTALLY OR SPIRITUALLY NOT ONE BIT AND I FEEL RESPONSIBLE…BUT YOU ARE NOT A CHILD ANYMORE AND YOU NEED TO STOP….YOU ARE MEAN, VICIOUS, MEAN SPIRITED, HATEFUL, YOU CUT WITH YOUR WORDS, YOU ARE MISERABLE, YOU HATE TO SEE ANY OF YOUR FAMILY HAPPY OR DOING GOOD FOR THEMSELVES…..
I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE….YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE SHIT…..I WISH YOU WOULD BRING ‘THE BABY’ AND DROP ‘IT’ OFF….I WOULDN’T BE MAD IF YOU DISTANCED YOURSELF FROM ME…I WOULD HOWEVER HATE IT IF YOU KEPT MY GRANDCHILD FROM ME. I PRAY GOD WILL HEAL YOUR WOUNDS….TO MY KNOWLEDGE GROWING UP YOU WERE NEVER MOLESTED IN OUR HOME, YOU NEVER MISSED A MEAL, YOU WERE NEVER LEFT WITH A BABYSITTER OTHER THAN YOUR GRANDPARENTS OR OTHER CLOSE FAMILY MEMBERS…I DON’T UNDERSTAND…GET COUNSELING…GET HEALED….HELP ME HELP YOU….
I DO ALL I CAN TO MAKE UP AND THAT’S STILL NOT ENOUGH….LAME…..YOU TREAT ALL OF YOUR SIBLINGS EXCEPT ONE LIKE SHIT…..AND YOU USE YOUR CHILD AS A WEAPON AGAINST MOST OF US….YET HER PATERNAL FAMILY ARE ALL DYSFUNCTIONAL AND YOU SHOULD APPRECIATE THE FACE THAT YOUR CHILD HAS US…………..
I DON’T UNDERSTAND……..WHEN WILL YOU STOP
WHEN WILL YOU GROW THE **** UP
WHEN WILL YOU HEAL
WHEN WILL YOU SEE HOW WRONG
HOW DESTRUCTIVE YOU ARE
WHEN WILL YOU GET IT
ONE DAY WE WILL BE FINISHED PUTTING UP WITH YOUR MEAN ASS SHIT AND WE WILL SAY ‘**** YOU’ GET THE **** OUT….
7 Responses to “ “you are my child you came OUT OF ME”
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Unfortunately the only thing you can do is cut off all contact from her and tell her not to contact you or her siblings which you all have to agree to for a period of no less than one year.
After that if the relationship doesn’t change then you need to as painful as this sounds write her off because she is so toxic it just rubs off on everyone she is in contact with.
There are many books dealing with toxic relationships
Good Luck and God Bless
Gee…. BuBear calls this relationship a toxic one… I have to agree. After all, it takes two toxic people to have a toxic relationship, and you, dear poster, clearly taught your child all about being a mean-spirited, vicious, toxic, hateful, and miserable human being. Congrats on being a failure as a parent! Good job, pat yourself on the back, you’ve done well.
That was a low blow…
Do you really have to assume and attack!?
A child is exposed to much more than simply their parents and a traumatic experience may seriously hinder a child’s development. This is just one sad case. I agree with BuBear50′s advice, a way of saying “There is a problem here, so clean yourself up and start flying straight. I do not think that this is the correct forum to be judgemental, as this is obviously a very emotional subject for the poster, and it is not a good role-model for this site. This poster is pleading for help in a way…don’t kick them when they are down.
Have you ever heard of a Narcissist…. you might want to look it up, maybe your daughter is “acting” this way because of her upbringing that you so obviously are ignoring, maybe she’s mean because of YOU, you might want to look in the mirror “mommy” us daughters are role modeled by you “mothers”
if you want to “heal” her why not buy her a book called “will I ever be good enough – healing the daughters of narcissistic mothers” maybe you should read it first maybe give you some insight on why she is the way she is… Monkey see monkey do ;)
Bull shit Marie. I have two children raised the same and given the same start in life. One let some else tell her she didn’t need the collage and new car we gave her and she totally shrewed her life up. 10 years later she can’t recover and hates us for now making her do what we wanted her to do. The other child is about to receive a Doctorate degree. Two children, same parents, same up bringing, same start. Two absolutly different people. You can only blame the parents for so much. And the choices people make and how they behave after leaving thier “rents” is up to them.
Correction ” for not making her do what we whated her to”
I have to agree with the more balanced posters here. There are 4 of us kids, same parents, same upbringing. 3 of us turned out fine and get along great while the other one is simply a write off for the rest of us. He abuses children, drugs, alcohol and doesn’t give a rats a** about anyone but himself. He was given the same opportunities as the rest of us, he just turned out rotten. Can’t win ‘em all.