I hate having step-kids. I don’t wish harm to them; I just simply wish they didn’t exist. My life would be so much better without them in it. I know these thoughts are awful and cruel but I can’t help it. Anyone else out there feel the way I do?
I haven’t experienced this situation, but have heard from others that have dated/married a person with kids how difficult it is. You have my sympathy. If you feel that they are interfering with your relationship and it’s too much to bear, then you may want to have a sit down with your hubby/wife and see if you can set boundaries with these kids. If your spouse is unwilling to make changes for your sake, then you may have to think about moving on. You shouldn’t have to feel unhappy like this. Life is to short. There are plenty of childless people out there who you can meet.
never, ever marry a man, or woman that already has kids, the kid will come first no matter what, and you will always be wrong when it includes the kid.
Wow, you bitter, insensitive women. If YOU had children with a man, split up and he became involved with someone else, would you want his new partner to resent your children? Unbelievable. They are children. They have to deal with their parents separation and probably abhor you jealous, self centred creatures as well. You are truly repulsive individuals.
I haven’t experienced this situation, but have heard from others that have dated/married a person with kids how difficult it is. You have my sympathy. If you feel that they are interfering with your relationship and it’s too much to bear, then you may want to have a sit down with your hubby/wife and see if you can set boundaries with these kids. If your spouse is unwilling to make changes for your sake, then you may have to think about moving on. You shouldn’t have to feel unhappy like this. Life is to short. There are plenty of childless people out there who you can meet.
never, ever marry a man, or woman that already has kids, the kid will come first no matter what, and you will always be wrong when it includes the kid.
That’s not true. My dad remarried and his wife always comes before me. No ifs no buts. It’s horrible.
Yes!!!! I wish they didn’t exist either. I’m the step-mom.
Wow, you bitter, insensitive women. If YOU had children with a man, split up and he became involved with someone else, would you want his new partner to resent your children? Unbelievable. They are children. They have to deal with their parents separation and probably abhor you jealous, self centred creatures as well. You are truly repulsive individuals.