oh man!
Posted by Rayne in Family on Nov 1st, 2009 | 10 commentsi got an abortion last month and im still having a hard time with it! Im in school and need to finish, this is why i did it.
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i got an abortion last month and im still having a hard time with it! Im in school and need to finish, this is why i did it.
I am sorry about your abortion, and the obvious loss of your child. There is help out there, you know. You should check out this website:
http://www.rachelsvineyard.org/
I hope you find peace in your heart, mind and soul. Best wishes.
you didn’t say you got raped and ended up preg. so that means you dropped your undies, spread your legs and said yeah baby I want that ****, in the future learn to say no, or use protection.
dont listen to “mac”. whats done is done n u did what u had to do. no one and i mean NO ONE can tell u how to live ur life. dont listen to anyone who tells u otherwise. they are not going to be there helping u raise the baby..only there to criticize n judge. u made a decision n u did what was right in ur circumstance. dont worry honey time heals all wounds.
there’s nothing u can do to take it back so please try not to dwell on something u can’t change.it’ll ruin your life.go to counseling forums or chats and find people who are going through what u went through.i kid of understand because i was in ur shoes before but decided adoption was the best thing for myself..it hurts no matter what but u gotta move on and just know that he/she is in heaven and you’ll see he/she again someday..move on,go to the chat rooms…it really does help
I did the same thing at 17. It was one of the best things I ever did for myself and my future. It was hard for a while, but I came to terms with it and hope you will too.
You have your whole life ahead of you.
I think you did the right thing.
gal am sorry but i truely understand it you just have to come interms with it then you will have peace in ur heart and mind, just think about it like this how could it be if you had given birth and your still in school the baby could just be suffering
Condom + birth control = win.
You should try it sometime, smart one.
It’s sad that this happened but it is ok.Mistakes happen. Don’t repeat it. Learn to say No!
If you’re still at school, they should have counseling services. They’re probably going to be a lot more helpful than anonymous assholes on the internet.
I also had an abortion when i was 17. I felt so alone afterwards because my family were so against me having an abortion and i have never been able to talk to them about it. Though, i do believe it was the right choice. I do feel selfish in that way but sometimes it’s just not right. I do get a little upset about it sometimes but then think to myself that it was the right thing to do at the time. In time things will get better and you will not be so upset about it. Just give it time and try not to think about it and try not to be alone when you are feeling really down. I wish you all the luck & really hope you start feeling better soon.