Comments on: My Parents Were Missionaries http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-parents-were-missionaries Confess your deepest, darkest secret Fri, 21 Nov 2008 10:15:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: SM http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-parents-were-missionaries#comment-1376 SM Tue, 22 Apr 2008 15:00:32 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=500#comment-1376 I wish I could say that being a pastor makes you perfect, but it doesn't. I am so sorry that your dad is abusive. You should not have to put up with this. My dad is also a missionary and does hurtful things to my mom. I also agree that you need to find a way to leave your situation and find safety. I will pray for you. I wish I could say that being a pastor makes you perfect, but it doesn’t. I am so sorry that your dad is abusive. You should not have to put up with this. My dad is also a missionary and does hurtful things to my mom. I also agree that you need to find a way to leave your situation and find safety. I will pray for you.

]]> By: LS http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-parents-were-missionaries#comment-1354 LS Sun, 20 Apr 2008 06:59:22 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=500#comment-1354 That doesn't sound like the very best idea, to plot revenge, at least not as the only course of action. You should go to a warm and trustworthy responsible adult as soon as you can bring yourself to and ask them for help and direction. you need care and support. it won't be easy.. but you deserve it. That doesn’t sound like the very best idea, to plot revenge, at least not as the only course of action. You should go to a warm and trustworthy responsible adult as soon as you can bring yourself to and ask them for help and direction. you need care and support. it won’t be easy.. but you deserve it.

]]> By: Megan http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-parents-were-missionaries#comment-1351 Megan Sun, 20 Apr 2008 05:59:10 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=500#comment-1351 Hey, I say that you should move out of home if your with your still living there and move in with family who (aunty, uncle, grandparents) who will not harm you, you deserve to live a life where your not being harmed, Hey, I say that you should move out of home if your with your still living there and move in with family who (aunty, uncle, grandparents) who will not harm you, you deserve to live a life where your not being harmed,

]]> By: anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-parents-were-missionaries#comment-1347 anonymous Sun, 20 Apr 2008 05:33:39 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=500#comment-1347 Dont feel bad for hating him, and dont feel bad for not being able to forgive. You can afford to forgive, and you will, once you are your own person, supporting yourself, and most importantly not living under his roof. You can forgive him after you stop visiting home, away at college or whatever you decide to do. You can forgive him when he asks for forgiveness, if you decide that he deserves it. Parents change a lot when contact is optional. Dont feel bad for hating him, and dont feel bad for not being able to forgive.

You can afford to forgive, and you will, once you are your own person, supporting yourself, and most importantly not living under his roof.

You can forgive him after you stop visiting home, away at college or whatever you decide to do. You can forgive him when he asks for forgiveness, if you decide that he deserves it.

Parents change a lot when contact is optional.

]]> By: ABUSED ONE http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-parents-were-missionaries#comment-1341 ABUSED ONE Sat, 19 Apr 2008 15:18:38 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=500#comment-1341 hi i cant say i know what ur going through but ive had maybe worse or lesser than you but if you honestly really want THE ABUSE to stop cause you cant verbally tell anyone anything so heres what you do go to a internet cafe type up a letter just like what you wrote in here but this this be sure to caps lock on graffic details things he does to you how many times it happened so fort etc etc if ur church has a computer you email it to the computer mmmmm and like how you said ur father is the pastor then that probably wont work but this has to you do the same thing tpye the letter make sure that the letter has NO WAY of tracing back to you when ur done confessing in the letter sign it bellow SOMEONE WHO SAW AND KNOWS and print as much as you need now youll have to figure out a way to get them in the church before it starts so everyone will see it and read and know what kind of father and pastor he is then when the church comforts him he will have no choice but to confess and publicly apologize for his horrible behaviour and if the ppl in the church are loving caring ppl they will be on ur side just make sure you delete it from the computer at the internet cafe AND ANOTHER QUESTION WHAT THE HELL IS MOTHER DOING ABT THE SITUATION DOES SHE NOT CARE WHATS HAPPENING TO YOU and heres another simpler plan if of course you got friends in the church that has a computer and you got their email theres ur way you do the same thing from the internet cafe NOT USING your own email address duh cause theyll know you sent it so you make a alias email a new one and give it out to no one and use it to send the letter to everyone in the church that has a email sign it the same way youll be surprised what will happen in ur church when everyone knows what the pastor does in his home hes a hypocrite preach one thing does the other if ur gonna follow my advice pls be smart abt how you go abt doing it ok try not to get yourself in trouble and i hope everything works out much better for you hi i cant say i know what ur going through but ive had maybe worse or lesser than you but if you honestly really want THE ABUSE to stop cause you cant verbally tell anyone anything so heres what you do go to a internet cafe type up a letter just like what you wrote in here but this this be sure to caps lock on graffic details things he does to you how many times it happened so fort etc etc if ur church has a computer you email it to the computer mmmmm and like how you said ur father is the pastor then that probably wont work but this has to you do the same thing tpye the letter make sure that the letter has NO WAY of tracing back to you when ur done confessing in the letter sign it bellow SOMEONE WHO SAW AND KNOWS and print as much as you need now youll have to figure out a way to get them in the church before it starts so everyone will see it and read and know what kind of father and pastor he is then when the church comforts him he will have no choice but to confess and publicly apologize for his horrible behaviour and if the ppl in the church are loving caring ppl they will be on ur side just make sure you delete it from the computer at the internet cafe AND ANOTHER QUESTION WHAT THE HELL IS MOTHER DOING ABT THE SITUATION DOES SHE NOT CARE WHATS HAPPENING TO YOU and heres another simpler plan if of course you got friends in the church that has a computer and you got their email theres ur way you do the same thing from the internet cafe NOT USING your own email address duh cause theyll know you sent it so you make a alias email a new one and give it out to no one and use it to send the letter to everyone in the church that has a email sign it the same way youll be surprised what will happen in ur church when everyone knows what the pastor does in his home hes a hypocrite preach one thing does the other if ur gonna follow my advice pls be smart abt how you go abt doing it ok try not to get yourself in trouble and i hope everything works out much better for you

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