my little brother is my son. i was sent away to ‘boarding’ school. my parents adopted him. i take care of him, bathe him, love him, care for him. i want to tell him i am his mama, i want him to know. he is still so young. when will i be able to tell him he is my baby, my boy, my son. when???
Tell him now. I know of a similar story and the daughter resented her mom for not telling her she was her real mom. All those years, she thought her mom was her sister. Not so. She found out years later and she never ever let her mother forget what she did to her.
This is a very complicated problem that involves alot of people on a very deep level.
You don’t say who the baby’s father is. I suggest that you start seeing a therapist immediately and start trying to figure out a way to resolve this problem, it’s too big to undertake on your own, good luck
When u get to a point where u can live on your own then u can tell him. This doesn’t seem to be a decision u made for yourself.
I suggest getting away from anyone that would force you into this situation.
If I were in your shoes I would work hard and gain indepenece… Than get out of there! And take him too!
This situation is like something from the 1700′s and you don’t deserve to have to watch your baby grow up being lied to.