my husband beating me
Posted by soffia in Family on Aug 20th, 2010 | 7 commentsi am thirty years old and living in italy without documents i am married last three years my husband has documents this time i am pregnat four months my marriage was love marriage before i never see my husband when i came here in italy i see my husband firsst time . he is elder than me 9 years he is big drucked always beating me when i say something whaat should i do now last week he beating me a lot
his family dont like me now i am pregnant how i can solve this problem my parents are poor i dont want to leave him becz now i am pregnant and also no documts i dont want to do second time marriaage i know if i do this my baby futue will not good anybody tell what should i do
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Hi!
I am so sorry to hear that… I think that you should go to a phone on the street, so your husband doesn’t know, and call your family or some friends and ask them to come and bring you back home. You have to get out of there before something more tragic happen to you… Please keep reading this posts because I am sure that some people will have some other solutions.
P.S: The pepers and money is worthless compared to you life… Do you know somone where you could stay for a while?
He should not beat you. Now that you’re pregnant, you need to think for your baby too. You need to find help; go to a local church and see if they can provide support. Sorry to hear about your situation
Truth: If you have no papers go to the police and turn your self in, let them deport you back home. Free trip and you get away from him before the baby is born.
It is not safe for you to be with him. You do not deserve it either.
Best to you.
GO TO THE FUZZ
Please get out of there. He is only going to get worst. He will always say he ‘s sorry then do it again. One day, if you don’t leave it can be fatal. Please leave if you can. If you can’t start making plans to leave without him knowing it.
This is a very sad and terrible situation – I am very sorry. From my own experience I have come to believe that once a man starts hitting you, it doesn’t stop or get better – it only gets worse. Documents or not, you need to go seek out some help. Look for some women’s support organizations. Try this website: http://www.vaonline.org/dv.html in your area. Maybe there is help for you there. But if you stay in the situation you are in, it probably won’t get better and your child could also be hurt. I sincerely wish and pray the best for you. Please reach out for help.