Comments on: my brother http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother Confess your deepest, darkest secret Tue, 06 Jan 2009 22:15:02 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: inDubai http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2572 inDubai Thu, 23 Oct 2008 23:05:32 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2572 if you are afraid to confront him or tell your parents about it, at the very least do something to freak him out from trying again. since Christmas is coming up you should be able to find a bell or something and attach a ribbon to it and hang it somewhere on your door so it will ring loudly.... don't let him know you put it up though...just let him get shocked when he tries to enter your room. it doesn't have to be a bell... but find something that will make enough noise to freak him out and also loud enough to wake you up. if you are afraid to confront him or tell your parents about it, at the very least do something to freak him out from trying again.

since Christmas is coming up you should be able to find a bell or something and attach a ribbon to it and hang it somewhere on your door so it will ring loudly…. don’t let him know you put it up though…just let him get shocked when he tries to enter your room.

it doesn’t have to be a bell… but find something that will make enough noise to freak him out and also loud enough to wake you up.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2515 Anonymous Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:25:47 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2515 SAY SOMETHIGN , TO HIM OR PARENTS, BEFORE IT GET'S OUT OF CONTROL. LIKE YOU ENDING UP GETTING RAPED SAY SOMETHIGN , TO HIM OR PARENTS, BEFORE IT GET’S OUT OF CONTROL. LIKE YOU ENDING UP GETTING RAPED

]]> By: Onche http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2452 Onche Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:40:08 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2452 Do Urself, Ur brother and everyone else a favour... Spill the beans on him. U could confront him directly when next he comes creeping into ur room. Get up and scold him. If he persists, tel Ur mum and lay ambush with her so she can witness it herself. If u let him contnue with his unrighteous acts U'll have allowed room for what U fear may be the end result of his present acts. Be bold. Act now! Do Urself, Ur brother and everyone else a favour… Spill the beans on him. U could confront him directly when next he comes creeping into ur room. Get up and scold him. If he persists, tel Ur mum and lay ambush with her so she can witness it herself. If u let him contnue with his unrighteous acts U’ll have allowed room for what U fear may be the end result of his present acts. Be bold. Act now!

]]> By: me http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2352 me Wed, 24 Sep 2008 10:18:51 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2352 i say, next time, kick him hard as h*ll. i say, next time, kick him hard as h*ll.

]]> By: grown http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2345 grown Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:48:44 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2345 what you should do is wake up the next time he comes in your room and starts with your foot and confront him. the boy has a foot fetish which allows him to jack off. don't be angry even though yes you are being violated but try talking to him about why he's doing it. i think the worst thing you could have done is avoided it for so long because it's caused you mental stress and allow him to become more bold and comfortable with the fetish. nothing wrong with some fetishes but it's matter of him understanding why he has this and not acting out with a family member. Think back to the first time he came in the room and had anything happended that day, etc. hope that helps otherwise therapy for you both is the next option. You can't keep it quite forever since it's affecting you this way and rightly so. what you should do is wake up the next time he comes in your room and starts with your foot and confront him. the boy has a foot fetish which allows him to jack off. don’t be angry even though yes you are being violated but try talking to him about why he’s doing it. i think the worst thing you could have done is avoided it for so long because it’s caused you mental stress and allow him to become more bold and comfortable with the fetish. nothing wrong with some fetishes but it’s matter of him understanding why he has this and not acting out with a family member. Think back to the first time he came in the room and had anything happended that day, etc. hope that helps otherwise therapy for you both is the next option. You can’t keep it quite forever since it’s affecting you this way and rightly so.

]]> By: anon http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2335 anon Sun, 21 Sep 2008 14:47:55 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2335 Next time, take a camera to bed with you and if he does it again... snap ... You've got em by the balls. Sorry, let me re-phrase that. You will have evidence and you will be sure he won't do it again. Remember he is just a horny kid with no access to girls and he's just curious. But it will stop in one second if he thinks there is any chance of someone finding out. Good luck. Next time, take a camera to bed with you and if he does it again… snap … You’ve got em by the balls. Sorry, let me re-phrase that. You will have evidence and you will be sure he won’t do it again. Remember he is just a horny kid with no access to girls and he’s just curious. But it will stop in one second if he thinks there is any chance of someone finding out. Good luck.

]]> By: Daisy http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2314 Daisy Fri, 19 Sep 2008 21:22:06 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2314 Confront him about it. If you don't flat out tell him you don't like it, he can keep thinking it's no big deal and keep doing it. What if he gets bolder and starts doing other stuff? Don't keep quiet. You have done nothing wrong. You're not the one who should feel embarrassed or ashamed. If you want to discuss it online with someone in confidence and maybe discuss a strategy on how to talk to your brother about it, go here: http://apps.rainn.org/ohl-bridge/ Confront him about it. If you don’t flat out tell him you don’t like it, he can keep thinking it’s no big deal and keep doing it. What if he gets bolder and starts doing other stuff? Don’t keep quiet. You have done nothing wrong. You’re not the one who should feel embarrassed or ashamed. If you want to discuss it online with someone in confidence and maybe discuss a strategy on how to talk to your brother about it, go here: http://apps.rainn.org/ohl-bridge/

]]> By: Beth http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2311 Beth Fri, 19 Sep 2008 14:50:30 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2311 Confront your brother privately and tell him you know what he's been doing, and if it does not stop immediatley you will go to not only the family, but the authorities as well. Then seek counsel for yourself. Confront your brother privately and tell him you know what he’s been doing, and if it does not stop immediatley you will go to not only the family, but the authorities as well. Then seek counsel for yourself.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2310 Anonymous Fri, 19 Sep 2008 13:53:48 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2310 You are 19?? tell him to stop...you don't have to say any more. You are 19?? tell him to stop…you don’t have to say any more.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.secret-confessions.com/family/my-brother/comment-page-1#comment-2295 Anonymous Tue, 16 Sep 2008 06:29:26 +0000 http://www.secret-confessions.com/?p=1479#comment-2295 tell someone now it will haunt you, if u can't, tell u brother if he does it again you will report him to the police he may get scared and leave you alone if that doesn't work tell your parents tell someone now it will haunt you, if u can’t, tell u brother if he does it again you will report him to the police he may get scared and leave you alone if that doesn’t work tell your parents

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