Miss you
Posted by Anonymous in Family on Jul 22nd, 2010 | 5 commentsMy parents are divorced, so my dad moved closer and we could never see him because of sports and activities, Well we called him one day and he said he never wanted to see us again and said he was not my dad. That broke my heart. Since, then I have to act tough and not cry about it to show my sister it’s not that bad. But, on the inside it was like having my heart broken and that I cry sometimes, and I feel that I will never see him agin.
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This is awful. That man doesn’t know what he is doing. I hate to hear about this kind of thing. I am a dad too. Separated. And sometimes my daughter who I love like no one else struggles with letting me be her dad. I don;t know if this is becuase of the way her mom, who she lives with regards me with so little respect or not. It works both ways sometimes. People do selfish things for selfish reasons. And it hurts. I hope there is some way he will have a change of heart. And I hope you can’t forgive him. I know that is hard. Because what he did is one of the worst things someone can do.
Sorry to hear that, it sounds very painful.. My best guess is either your dad is hurting quite a bit himself right now or there’s something going on between he and your mom that you might not be aware of or maybe he just has issues.. Maybe now that you have some distance between you and your dad you can see him in a more realistic way, maybe he’s always been like this to an extent and you just didn’t want to face it before.
For now, maybe you can just be grateful that you have one (I’m assuming) loving, devoted parent. Not everyone does and take care and love yourself and your family.. You all need each other now.
Truth: Don’t worry he is just angry and a a$$hat. When you turn 18/or get a high paying job he will be back wanting to be a daddy. Now keep in mind all the hard work of raising you will be over and you will get nothing out of it but he will want to see you its his “right” as your father. Some men are jerks, some men are men if we could only pick what we get before we get here. /sigh
sorry to hear that all i can say is prove ur better then your dad try to succed reach high goals make him feel proud of you make him eat his words for saying that. and dont worry u havent done anything wrong lets just say some people have a peariod on their life that they just want to get away from everything just give it time he will regret for saying that and yea carma will do its job
Oh Dear, I am so sorry your dad said this but it’s going to be somthing he is going to kick himself over for many years to come. Your dad needs space for a while. You know your mom will never leave you. That is definately something you can count on. Your mom is going through a ttough time too. Just imagine how scared she is too. She is going to have to be a mother and father. She is your sole provider. Your rock. Maybe this would be a great time for you to bond with your mom and let her know that your just as strong as she is and lean on eachother for support.