I’m getting an abortion. It saddens me deeply, but I’m not sure if it makes me sadder than the thought of my now-newborn going without. My husband and I are just barely scraping by each month. I can’t bring another child into this. I would choose adoption, but I have friends who have, and the amount of hate and vitriolic comments they get over their decision, even several years later, is too much for me to bear. So feel free to leave your hateful, close-minded, uneducated comments below. It won’t change anything.