i don’t know..

i’ve seen
my parents have sex
when I was about 10-11
i hated it
i just wanted to tell them to just shut up
and close their door

girl16 on March 10th 2008 in Family

9 Responses to “i don’t know..”

  1. Sally said on 11 Mar 2008 at 12:26 am # Quote

    I don’t know how old u r.I guess, u r pretty young.
    That was something natural u saw.If it is any consolation .. my cousin had very awful nightmares when she was 19. She saw so many doctors.Then she ended up with a pro psychologist but it finally turned out that she’d seen her mother and her uncle (father’s brother)having sex when she was 5…
    Urs was sth way natural.

  2. Kat said on 12 Mar 2008 at 2:40 am # Quote

    You’re not alone. I’ve had the same experience but the only difference is I heard them having sex. I was 13. Now, I can’t even look at others getting affectionate, I’d think of my own parents and I’d get disgusted.

  3. Eleni said on 12 Mar 2008 at 4:19 pm # Quote

    When I was around 10, I walked in on my parents when my mom was giving my dad a fellatio. They had not heard me come in. I looked at them, and was more curious than anything. I somehow realized I was an interloper on a private moment and I crept back outside. I never thought what I witnessed was gross or disturbing. I never mentioned to my parents what I had seen. Now that I’m a married adult myself, I remember the incident and I’m glad my parents had such a loving, affectionate marriage. They were together for 33 years when my mother died of cancer.

  4. girl16 said on 21 Mar 2008 at 12:43 am # Quote

    i’m now 16
    and I saw them when I was
    like 10..
    I have a boyfriend
    2 years now
    and we make love
    normally I guess..
    but what I hated about them was
    the fact that they could
    close the door,or stop shouting
    or just do it when I was out..
    i hope that I don’t sound weird

  5. .:Unknown:. said on 28 Mar 2008 at 4:35 am # Quote

    dont worry…these things r actually normal. u dont think its normal and u feel lonely because ppl like u dont wanna share the same things they have seen or heard. dont b ashamed.
    if u cant get over it, try telling them 2 please stop doing it when ur around. if u cant or if they dont listen, try listening 2 music 2 avoid from hearing them.

  6. Princess Starbucks said on 02 Apr 2008 at 1:41 am # Quote

    Oh this is quit interesting seeing how I am a 30+ yr old wife and mother of 3 (15,12 and 5 yr olds) I can not begin to tell you how many times I walked in on my parents. Never once did I think it was disgusting. When you have kids, there is no privacy unfortunately. Granted my kids have yet to walk in on me and my husband but, should they do so, I would definitely talk to them about it assuring them it’s natural and Ok when married. Life is short, sex is apart of life, one day you will be doing the same and look back only to laugh at it all.

  7. Spize said on 23 May 2008 at 2:15 pm # Quote

    dont follow them your a better person
    try to avoid them suround yourself with good people
    show your better

  8. ~her~ said on 25 Jul 2008 at 12:29 am # Quote

    My daughter says the same thing about myself and my boyfriend….we have a four month old together~~ We actually started going to counseling about it, the conselor told her that when my door is closed she is not allowed to just go in, she shld always knock!! We dont do it on purpose, he works nites and when he gets off at eleven iam normally already asleep, but he likes to do it all the time! so around 1am yeah we go at it and sometimes it seems she waits up all nite just to hear the bed start squeaking….the she starts yelling”IAM AWAKE”!! OR STARTS CRYING….and I dont understand why?

  9. Awryt said on 10 Oct 2008 at 2:04 am # Quote

    its okhay….almost d same happened wid me when i was dat age….10 i guess…it was d most disgusting thing ever… bt now, 7-8 years later, i find myself ok…although i havent forgotten the incidence, but it doesnt continue to affect the way i see every other thing anymore! I cudnt curse them any less for it…bt im over it nw as im mature…n as for d last comment by “her”…ur disgusting…! hw cn u nt stop being more careful when u knw ur daughter has been thru dt several times n is crying…dis is sooo pathetic!

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